PLEASE GUYS DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN A GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL AND A WIFE MATERIAL.

       

Men be careful when you want to marry. Marry a lady who is mature and a wife material, and not just a girlfriend material. You have got all the time and all it takes to learn and know her behaviours during your courtship. It's during this time of courtship that you can be able to learn and understand your woman's behaviours. Ladies should also use the same time as opportunity to learn and know if the man they are in courtship with or planning to marry have true qualities of a husband material and not a boyfriend material. 

         This is always a two way traffic and both parties should take responsibility for their own better to ensure that, at the end of everything, there comes a wedding ceremony day. You must ensure that you are being united to the right person with whom you will not complain about that things are not Ok. It takes wisdom and prayers to achieve the best out of all this. During courtship time some people are tricky and hide off their bad behaviours. They pretend to show off good behaviours only. So it's good enough and wise for these partners to imply or use some technical tricks in order to capture the true character of a person they are soon marrying.

          I have seen a case where a marriage ceremony was carried successfully. After a short period of time of staying together, ie two months later the couple separated or divorced when the lady was pregnant. Right now it's two years ago since seperation occurred, the lady and the kid came back home to her parents and the man is staying alone at his parents home. So using such examples, you can easily realize that this couple did not take time to study one another's behaviour before being united as husband and wife.

         Let us look at this  four illustrations that shows differences between a wife material and a girlfriend material.

(1). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL  IS A SPENDER

        When you're dating a girlfriend, your expenses will triple. You'll be spending as if you're paying tax to federal government on the relationship.

Take a girlfriend to a fast food restaurant, she places her orders without caring about the price and your salary, and she NEVER tries to split the bill at any time. She always order high price food and will always show love for expensive products before the man.

WIFE MATERIAL IS CONSERVATIVE.

       When you're dating a woman who can be a wife material, take her to a fast food restaurant, she'll ask how much for an item before she orders it, and she'll even refuse to pick an item with an exorbitant price or high price, unless you insist. Sometimes where prices are not fixed she will try to bargain for a lower price bid. Sometimes she can just decide to request you to allow her pay for the bill if she is a working class woman.

        A wife material lady will always try to save you Money, She considers your pocket and she cares for your tomorrow. A wife material will always help you some household duties before you ask her to do so mostly when she pays you a visit at your house.

(2). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL BELONGS TO EVERYBODY 

       Girlfriend is always receiving calls 24/7 (even in your presence) as if she's a customer care agent. On her phone, a girlfriend is always on her social media platforms chatting people.

Girlfriend is always coming down from different cars,

       She's always flirting, collecting gifts and cash from different suitors without shame. She even demands it from them if they don't give her. She'll make trouble if you confront her. 

Check her phone at your peril, she'll tell you "there's nothing going on" but her chats/friendship with other guys is too close for comfort. 

WIFE MATERIAL BELONGS TO ONE MAN

         A Wife is not available for every Man.

She's a One Man's Lady, she rebuffs suitors and their gifts. She is always sensitive and conscious about the language men use in her presence so she will easily rebuke men who try to seduce her.

(3). GIRLFRIEND IS AFTER MATERIAL THINGS.

A Girlfriend is like a Tax Collector.On HER birthday, you'll take her out.On YOUR birthday you'll still take her out. 

Christmas that is JESUS'S birthday, she'll still collect gifts from you and if you don't buy for her she will bitterly. 

Valentine, Easter, New Year, every season is an opportunity for her to collect gifts and money from you, but she doesn't reciprocate.

WIFE MATERIAL COLLECTS AND GIVES

A Wife material will plan a surprise birthday for you on your birthday, no matter how small.

She doesn't just only receive, she at time gives. 

(4). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL IS REBELLIOUS

A girlfriend gives Headache

She uses equal rights and feminism spirit. 

She always prefer good gifts from you and most of the time she will prefer to visit you when you have money or when you can take her out.

         Thank you so much for reading this article about differentiating between a girlfriend material and a wife material. May God bless you and give you wisdom in choosing the right person who can suit your life. That person who can understand you and accept you the way you are. God is not happy when we live life full of complaints and   fighting every time just after marriage. God likes people who live together happily and thankfully praising HIS name.

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REASONS WHY THERE IS STILL FIGHT IN MARRIAGES.

FACTORS THAT CONTRIBUTE TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE:

‭Ephesians 5:33 NIV‬

[33] However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

https://bible.com/bible/111/eph.5.33.NIV1. Pure love

2. Sufficient income 

3. Trustworthiness 

4. Caring

5. Love of God

6. Salvation way of life

7. Good Love and Security 

8. Good friends and Mentors

9. Prayers and Supplication 

10. Transparency 

11. Faithfulness 

12. Accountability

13. Proper and Careful listening 

         If you consider all these factors listed here and even more, then they could help you manage and maintain a successful marriage that doesn't have breakups. A marriage that is peaceful and has harmony. A marriage that many people can admire and use it as a good example in the whole community. A marriage that can teach people what is a marriage. The fact that many women turned into single mothers, is because they failed to do one or two or all of the listed factors. 

       The listed factors are not easy to perform in ones life unless you do the following but only starting with accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal saviour who now attracts these factors and makes them to be part of the whole process ie if perfecting your marriage.

1. They require the hand of God. 

2. They require the intervention of the holy spirit. 

3.They require a bold heart

4. They require a self dedication 

5. They require daily training and practice.

6. They require serious partners only 

 

FACTORS THAT COUSE FIGHTING AND BREAKOUTS 

1. Unfaithfulness 

2. Lack of responsibility 

3. Lack of transparency 

4. Poor communication 

5. Arrogance

6. Lack of counselling and teachings for life       issues.

7. Cheating 

8. Use of Drugs and Drug abuse.

9. Bad friends Company 

10. Misunderstanding/Lack of understanding 

11. Poor reputation towards another person.

12. Ignorance 

13. Relationships outside marriage " Kenyans call it "Mpango wa Kando." Meaning a distant relationship outside your real marriage.

      Many factors including the listed above cause fighting in marriages and breakups. Many people don't allow God to control their lives from the first day or point of marriage. They think in marriage everything is automatically done. They forget that God has a major role in a marriage, every single day. It's important to understand that God can only be effective in our marriages if we allowed Him to do so by accepting the call to surrender our lives to Jesus. God uses His word to find a ways into our marriages and start to control it. In a marriage where there is no light or the word of God established, the devil becomes the sole operator. All factors that lead to breaking of a marriages, 100% originate from principalities of satan because it's satan who has full access to the marriage other than God. Any time in life we fail to give our lives to God to save it, we alternatively and automatically give it to satan who then gains full access and control thus destroys it by ensuring that the above listed factors do happen in the very marriage.

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GOD IS ALWAYS INTERESTED IN WHY WE DO THINGS THAN HOW WE DO THEM. John 7:32

 GOD IS INTERESTED IN WHY WE DO THINGS THAN HOW WE DO THEM. John 7:32

 The bible says, that you will know the truth and the truth shall set you free.‭ John chapter 7:32

[32] Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

We In this world as a result of God's work. We are a perfect plan of God and in operation. We are not here for our for our own. But sometimes it's amusing when we realize that some human beings think that they are on this earth because of their Parents, Power, Money, and other human things. It's from this point that all sorts of evil start. Jealousness, Unforgiveness, Self centred-ness, Greedy, Idolatry, etc 

           Having wisdom of God is an important thing to us. Without the wisdom of God, we cannot do many things correctly. It doesn't matter how much we are educated. Wisdom plays a greater role in the life of a believer. With all that we have attained, eg Educational degrees, Money or wealth, and other livelihood achievements, we need wisidom on yop if them in order that we can perform well and succeed in in life. 

          Wisidom helps us apply knowledge we have attained in the write way. When we have knowledge that God is interested in why we do things that how we do them, wisidom can now gelp us know what to do. With wisdom in us, we can always find proper reasons before we start doing anything. Proper reasons for doing things must start with what pleases God first that makes a positive contribution to the Kingdom of God. 

          When we dress, God will only be interested in knowing why we decided to dress in a certain way or dress and not how we may look descent in those dresses. And this phrase should really help us find a wisdom which can always guide us in how we dress. We are living in an era where by some people almost walk naked. So because God is God if truth, He is able to know why we dress in clothes that make us appear naked to others. God is not a human being to ask us why we did something in the manner it appears. God will automatically know why because God reads our minds even before we talk. 

           

So we as human beings, we can neither cheat God nor lie before God. So the verse we read in John 7:32 is just a guideline in helping us reason upright and wisely before deciding to do anything. We should realise that God always has a witness with u who is the holy spirit. When the holy spirit of God comes to inspect why we did somethings in a specific way, the first answer should glorify God. When God is glorified because of our deeds, then there and there we are on the right track. The outcome becomes blessings to us and to others.

          Those people and organizations that offers humanitarian help, to the most needy people in the society, draw their attention to this point. This point helps them remain focused on their goals, objectives, and vision throughout their operations. This is why if you asked them why they are helping, they will give a congue answer to such question. For those people who wants to give towards the work of God in churches they should first develop a proper understanding of why they want to help the ministry. Giving towards the work of God in the ministry, has open avenues of blessings attached to it.

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A MAN WHO CAN CONTROL HIS SEXUAL URGE.

A man who can control his sexual urge is a man who can live many years on earth. Men don't know that some of their failures are caused by multiple girlfriends, Not all girls have good spirit. Some have demonic spirits, others have venom

between their leggs. 

         I remember one day a servant of God was speaking to the congregation of the  church in Kawangware 46 in Nairobi, which I was part of the congregation. The speaker was also a prophetess and she said clearly that, there are women whom if you go in bed with, the following morning you go to work,  will be sacked from your job. She said again that some women Carry evil spirit around with them. She also said that there is a type of ladies with whom if you involve with,  they can course more harm than good to you as a man. So she concluded by saying, sex outside marriage is totally bad. 

           Some women are destiny destroyers, beware.

Pay close attention:

1. A real man only has one woman in his life.

2. Don't obey your Erection at all times. Most erections mislead you, Control your erection if you don't want to have a few days on earth with much poverty in you.

3. Don't date a lady because she has curves, boobs and a sexy shape. These things are simply used by the devil for misleading men. Avoid

such, don't fall for what is called social media irony.

4. Not everything you see under the skirt you must work to eat, some skirts contain snakes that bite you and make you uncomfortable. control your sexual urge Self control and abstinence pays a lot in most cases.

5. Marrying a woman doesn't mean she owns you. Treat her with respect Make her your queen, love, honor her and give her reasons to treat you the same.

6. Having many girlfriends doesn't make you a man. It only makes you a womanizer, a cheater and a boy.

7. Just because you're good in bed doesn't make you a man. A real man is a man who does not run away from his responsibility but faces it squarely.

8. Respect any woman who loves you Yes, is not easy for a lady to throw her love on you and support your future.

9. The world celebrates successful men No one will celebrate you for having many girlfriends. So what's the point tho? Waste of energy, money & wasted sperm. Remember, being honest, loyal and faithful, is the trademark of a real man.

Always remember that.

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USING WOMEN AND DUMPING THEM IS A SIN.

         

Every woman was created by God for a special purpose to fulfill a special role in the society. But sometimes this never happens since many women at times, are derailed from their destiny by men who mis-use them for producing children, as girl friends, and as short  time house wives, or come we stay type of marriage and  later dump them. A dumped woman with a child or children, may look more frustrated and have failed visions in as she struggles to feed the children she is left with.

        All men who have such habit of misusing women should take this seriously and stop it. I think it's high time governments should put laws in place that can help govern this issue that is rising every day. After such law is established, men who are found guilty of violating the law by misusing women, should face the law. This is because, Many ladies around the world don't get a chance to fulfill their destiny since their life was interfered with. When a girl gets pregnant while still in school, her future is interfered with. She cannot continue with her education properly. Her relationship with her parents is also affected, because parents experience a financial loss to school fees paid for a girl who then dropps out of school due to pregnancy. 

         Her relationship with her fellow friends is also affected and she may lose them because she has become a mother. The bible rebukes the act of sexual immorality which men use to destroy most women's life. Here I a quote from the bible which discourages sexual immoral.

‭Galatians 5:19 NIV‬

[19] The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 

https://bible.com/bible/111/gal.5.19.NIV

Sexual immorality brings impunity, and that's why if a woman is involved in such, her relationship with others in the community is interfered with. 

Men should be serious with life. They should understand that once you take a woman and sleep with her, he Bible says both have sinned. 

‭1 Corinthians 5:1-4 NIV‬

[1] It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father’s wife. 

[2] But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. [3] The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. [4] The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 

https://bible.com/bible/111/1co.5.1-4.NIV