HOW TO MANAGE FIGHTS THAT ERRUPT IN RELATIONSHIPS / MARRIAGES.

 

HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE:

1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other

2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm

3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still.

4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations

5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long

6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem

7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally

8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself

9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back

10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse

11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you.

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INTELLIGENCE IS DEVIDED INTO FOUR CATEGORIES ACCORDING TO PSYCHOLOGISTS STUDIES

 

"According to Psychologists, there are four types of Intelligence, let's look at them one after the other.

1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)

2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)

3) Social Quotient (SQ)

4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your level of comprehension. You need IQ to solve maths, memorize things, and recall lessons.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others, keep to time, be responsible, be honest, respect boundaries, be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. Social Quotient (SQ): this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go further in life than those with a high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize on improving IQ levels while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your Character, while your SQ represents your Charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs, especially your EQ and SQ.

Now there is a 4th one, a new paradigm:

4. The Adversity Quotient (AQ): The measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life, and come out of it without losing your mind.

When faced with troubles, AQ determines who will give up, who will abandon their family, and who will consider suicide.

Parents please expose your children to other areas of life than just Academics. They should adore manual labour (never use work as a form of punishment), Sports and Arts.

Develop their IQ, as well as their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of their parents.

Finally, let's remember this tips.

-Do not prepare the road for your children. Prepare your children for the road. 

-Don't solve equations for your children but rather show them how to solve them. 

-Showing someone how to make money is much more better than helping then with money to buy whatever they want. 

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LOYALITY AND SUBMISSIVE, WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE?

 

The distinction between loyalty and submission in marriage:

LOYALITY

1. Commitment to the relationship

2. Faithfulness and dedication

3. Standing by one's partner

4. Supporting each other's goals

5. Unwavering allegiance

SUBMISSION 

1. Yielding to one's partner's leadership

2. Respectful deference

3. Cooperation and teamwork

4. Recognizing each other's authority

5. Mutual surrender

Key Differences:

1. Loyalty focuses on commitment; submission emphasizes cooperation.

2. Loyalty is about standing by; submission is about yielding.

3. Loyalty prioritizes faithfulness; submission prioritizes respect.

Biblical Perspective

1. Mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21)

2. Wives submit to husbands (Ephesians 5:22-24)

3. Husbands love and sacrifice (Ephesians 5:25-33)

4. Submission to God's authority (James 4:7)

Healthy Loyalty

1. Supports partner's growth

2. Encourages independence

3. Fosters open communication

4. Respects boundaries

5. Prioritizes mutual benefit

_Healthy Submission:_

1. Recognizes partner's strengths

2. Values teamwork and cooperation

3. Respects each other's authority

4. Encourages mutual accountability

5. Prioritizes unity and harmony

Unhealthy Loyalty

1. Enables harmful behavior

2. Ignores personal boundaries

3. Suppresses individuality

4. Fosters codependency

5. Prioritizes partner's needs over own well-being

Unhealthy Submission

1. Enables abuse or control

2. Ignores personal autonomy

3. Suppresses communication

4. Fosters resentment

5. Prioritizes partner's desires over own needs

Remember

1. Loyalty and submission are distinct.

2. Healthy loyalty prioritizes mutual growth.

3. Healthy submission values teamwork.

4. Unhealthy loyalty enables harm.

5. Unhealthy submission ignores autonomy.

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CHEATING IN A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP IS SO DANGEROUS.

 

A CHEATING WOMAN IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN POISON. How?

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). 

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. 

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands death.  She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband.That is the main reason why it is too dangerous for a woman to cheat in the relationship.

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THE POWER OF FAITH, CONFIDENCE, AND DETERMINATION

 

Dear friends 

children of God who are justified by the blood of Jesus Christ, let's always remember these things.

We are:-

-Stronger than we think.

-Braver than we feel.

-Smarter than we know.

-These are super natural qualities God has given us   to triumph over the principalities of the devel 

We should always remember that:-

-Our uniqueness is our superpower.

-Our voice matters, and we can advise ourselves more better than others can do.

Let's speak kindly to ourselves that, 

our journey on this earth is distinct, compared to that of people who have chosen to walk in sinful nature.

-We should always remember that when doubts creep in, we should take  a breath, Pause, and Refocus back.

Recall our triumphs, no matter how small.

Remind ourselves that "with Jesus we've got things right.

Jesus Christ helps us to overcome these:

Tough days and nights.

Self-doubt and fear.

Challenges that always seem to be  insurmountable.

Lets Keep pushing forward:

Celebrating every tiny victories.

Embracing growth, learning from our mistakes and that of other people.

We ought to know that progress, not perfection, is our utmost goal.

We all deserve the following.

- Love, 

-Care,

- Compassion. 

-Forgiveness,

- New beginnings. 

-Happiness, 

-Laughter, and 

-Adventure.

Trust yourself that

You are enough."

You can trust myself."

And you can make it.

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