THESE THINGS CAN KILL YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION

The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies 

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS

Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES

Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS

Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS

Addictions such as porn or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner 

6. THIRD PARTIES

You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse 

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION

The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse 

8. UNFORGIVENESS

Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE

Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple 

10. WORK

When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences 

11. BLAME GAME

When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company 

12. LACK OF EFFORT

Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die.

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WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION

The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies 

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS

Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES

Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS

Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS

Addictions such as porn or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner 

6. THIRD PARTIES

You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse 

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION

The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse 

8. UNFORGIVENESS

Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE

Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple 

10. WORK

When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences 

11. BLAME GAME

When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company 

12. LACK OF EFFORT

Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die.

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WHAT KILLS LOVE?

1. LACK OF COMMUNICATION

The less you two communicate, the more you two slowly learn to live without each other. The more you two take breaks from each other, the faster love dies 

2. ENDLESS FIGHTS

Constant fighting will make you two avoid each other for the sake of peace, thus drifting apart

3. LACK OF MUTUAL ACTIVITIES

Yes, you two might be in different careers and have different likes; but if you don't have common activities to do together, the bond will fade

4. AFFAIRS

Affairs distract, your love for each other withers

5. ADDICTIONS

Addictions such as porn or alcohol take the best of our time and we end up defending the addiction more than the relationship, we get too hooked to see how we are neglecting or hurting our partner 

6. THIRD PARTIES

You might end up siding with third parties such as parents, friends or siblings to the point that they pull you away from your spouse 

7. LACK OF APPRECIATION

The more appreciation lacks, the more loving starts to feel like a strain; worst of all is when things are done, not out of joy but obligation as a spouse 

8. UNFORGIVENESS

Your heart cannot love and hold a grudge at the same time

9. DISTANCE

Physical distance but most of all, emotional distance can make two people fall out; try as much as possible to connect as a couple 

10. WORK

When your work or business becomes too demanding, you might struggle to balance, and your love life, because it appears not to have financial value, might suffer the consequences 

11. BLAME GAME

When you two keep exchanging blames and finding fault in each other, you will begin to dislike each other's company 

12. LACK OF EFFORT

Love doesn't just happen, doesn't just grow; it needs constant watering, nurturing and attention. If you both don't put in the effort, it will gradually die.

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ABORTION IS BOTH SIN AND CRIME:

 

Watch This Video to refresh your minds before you begin reading this topic about ABORTION. We use short videos on some topics that are mind challenging for self relaxation.

WHAT IS ABORTION:

 Let's look at the diagram below illustrating a featus or a premature baby inside mothers womb before it's life is ended .

An abortion is a medical procedure that ends a pregnancy, either by removing the fetus or embryo, or by preventing a pregnancy from resulting in the birth of a child. It can be performed using medicine or surgery. 

 

Some terms for an abortion include: 

(1).Termination of pregnancy, 

(2).Elective abortion, induced abortion, and 

(3).Therapeutic abortion. 

 

There are two types of abortion treatment:

(a).Vacuum aspiration: A gentle suction method to remove the pregnancy

(b). Dilation and evacuation: A procedure that uses general anesthetic, narrow forceps, and gentle suction to remove the pregnancy 

 

Some people may feel tired, nauseated, dizzy, or have diarrhea after taking the second pill for a medical abortion. They can also expect bleeding and cramping that start one to four hours after taking the second pill, and heavy cramping and bleeding with blood clots over the next several hours

 

Abortion Risks and Side Effects

This is just to inform you, but your role is to decide.

-Abortion Links

-Common Side Effects

-Possible Complications

-Future Health Risks

-Improving Abortion Safety

      Before you have any elective procedure it’s important to know the potential impacts it could have on your body and future health. Here we’ve compiled the latest research on the impacts of abortion.

Risks and side effects vary by the type of procedure and how far along you are. If you’re pregnant, CompassCare can help you determine exactly what kind of abortion procedure you could be eligible for, and discuss the specific risks and side effects associated with that procedure.

Common Side Effects

Most women experience some of the following after an abortion:

Bleeding – on average, bleeding lasts 14 days but can last as long as 21 days. 1,2

Cramping

Dizziness

Drowsiness

Nausea/Vomiting

These symptoms typically resolve within a week, sometimes longer.

Possible Complications

Damage to the womb or cervix

Excessive bleeding

Incomplete abortion, requiring an additional surgical abortion procedure

Infection of the uterus or fallopian tubes

Scarring of the inside of the uterus

Sepsis or Septic shock

Uterine perforation

Death

Future Health Risks

Future Pre-term Deliveries

Abortion causes a weakening of the cervix, which increases a woman’s risk of future pre-term deliveries. Two recently-published studies indicate that one induced abortion increases the risk of a subsequent preterm birth by between 25% and 27%. After two or more abortions a woman’s risk of preterm birth increases by between 51% and 62%. 3,4

       A 2013 Canadian study found that women who have had abortions are more than twice as likely to have a very early preterm child (26 weeks gestation). The risks were 71% higher at 28 weeks gestation and 45% higher at 32 weeks. 5 (Premature births carry serious health risks for the baby. Infants who are born before 37 weeks gestational age have a much lower chance of living to adulthood. 6 Those that do survive have significant risk of serious disabilities, including cerebral palsy, intellectual impairment, psychological development disorders and autism. 7,8,9 )

Breast Cancer

STDs & Pelvic Inflammatory Disease

Mental Health

Infertility and Future Childbearing

Abortion and Sexual Dysfunction

Improving Abortion Safety

       The US has come a long way in making abortion “safe and affordable for all women.” However, abortion does have risks. This fact is true for abortion providers in Buffalo, Rochester and throughout the US, whether medical services are provided within an affluent neighborhood or a poverty-stricken one. The risk associated with any medical procedure does not change based on price.

Any physician will agree that safety is not a guarantee when it comes to medicine and is why you must sign a consent form before beginning any treatment. That includes medical and surgical abortions.

       Could abortionists in Western NY improve the safety of abortion? Yes! For instance, routine pre-abortion ultrasound scanning is not required in NYS. That means that rather than providing a woman (and her doctor) with a full picture of what’s going on inside, issues such as ectopic pregnancy are diagnosed solely on a woman’s symptoms. However, ectopic pregnancies can be asymptomatic25 and medical abortions should not be given with an ectopic pregnancy.26 There is also a possibility that the woman is not even pregnant. It is never safe for a woman to receive a medical procedure that is not necessary. CompassCare provides free ultrasound screening at every appointment.

       Doctors are also not obliged to routinely prescribe antibiotics to women who receive a medical abortion. According to the US National Library of Medicine, “A small number of patients died due to infections that they developed after they used mifepristone and misoprostol to end their pregnancies” and women may not realize the severity of their infection until it’s too late.27 A weakened immune system can increase your risk of infection, as well as untreated cases of chlamydia or gonorrhea (also often asymptomatic), which could lead to an infection known as PID that can seriously affect a woman’s future reproductive health.

Is there such a thing as a “safe abortion?” There are documented complications for both medical abortion and surgical abortion.28

With any type of abortion, “if the abortion is infected or complicated by pre-existing and nontreated STDs, risks of secondary infertility, ectopic pregnancy, and fetal loss increase.”29  Studies have consistently shown that induced abortion increases the incidence of subsequent preterm delivery and also depression30, which can ultimately effect a woman’s decision to have more children in the future.

        There is much research that still needs to be done on this topic.  “Despite strong recommendations for substantive research, and the clear need for women to have accurate information as they execute their autonomy, current data remain sparse, studies are small and methodologically flawed, and the conclusions are often intertwined with the political agendas of their authors and publishers.”31

Contact CompassCare for a free consultation regarding all of your abortion options. We also offer free STD testing, pregnancy testing, and ultrasounds. Let us lay out your options in a safe, unpressured, nonjudgmental environment.

Medically Reviewed By:

STAFF NURSE, ROCHESTERJOHANNA G, MS, RN

BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE ON ABORTION 

  The Bible doesn't directly address abortion, and Christian denominations have a variety of stances on the topic. Some say that the Bible's teachings on the sanctity of life and the sixth commandment make abortion wrong. Others say that the Bible is more nuanced and that abortion may be acceptable in some circumstances, such as when it's necessary to save the mother's life. 

 

The church has stated that abortion "is not a moral option, except as a tragically unavoidable byproduct of medical procedures necessary to prevent the death of another human being, viz., the mother." The LCMS believes that whether abortion is legal or not, it does not change the fact that abortion is a sin.

In conclusion, Abortion is Sin and Crime. Under some circumstances, you can be arrested by authorities for being involved with abortion matters.

Stay connected and I wish all happy marriages and a clear insight on matters partaining families relationships.

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THINGS MONEY CANNOT BUY FOR YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP::

 

THINGS MONEY CANNOT BUY IN A RELATIONSHIP WE MUST DO THEM OURSELVES:

      Some people in this world are rich and have a lot of money in their bank accounts. They don't mind about helping the poor people in the society with their riches. Such people, use their money in exchange of almost everything they want in life. They make the life of other people who don't have alot of money, difficult because they bribe to get things like government services. They buy employment opportunities in government, parastatals and private companies. By doing this, they make the life of poor candidates who are qualified for such opportunities, to lose simply because bribe is the order of the day. 

      Today I want to remind them that, they cannot buy everything with money. Money has a limit. These things listed here cannot be bought with money. God is never bribbed. God is the giver of all these values and It's only through your relationship with God that can help a person attain them and be able to deliver in life. Most people who like bribbing, don't have a good relationship with God instead of believing in God they believe in bribery.

Here are some things money cannot buy in a relationship:

1. Trust: 

Trust is built through actions, communication, and commitment, not by material possessions.

2. Love: 

Genuine love and affection cannot be purchased or replaced with gifts.

3. Respect: 

Respect is earned through mutual understanding, empathy, and kindness.

4. Communication:

 Effective communication requires effort, active listening, and emotional intelligence.

5. Emotional Connection: 

A deep emotional connection is built through shared experiences, vulnerability, and empathy.

6. Intimacy:

 True intimacy goes beyond physical connection; it requires emotional closeness and vulnerability.

7. Commitment: 

Commitment is a choice, not a purchase; it requires dedication and loyalty.

8. Forgiveness: 

Forgiveness is a process that requires effort, understanding, and empathy.

9. Personal Growth: 

Personal growth and self-improvement require individual effort and dedication.

10. Memories:

 Meaningful memories are created through shared experiences, laughter, and moments, not just expensive gifts.

11. Support:

 Support and encouragement require emotional investment and presence.

12. Vulnerability: 

Vulnerability requires trust, openness, and courage.

13. Laughter: 

Shared laughter and joy come from connections, experiences, and playfulness.

14. Compromise: Compromise requires understanding, empathy, and willingness to find common ground.

15. Unconditional Acceptance: 

Unconditional acceptance requires love, understanding, and empathy.

      Remember, a healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and emotional connection, not just material possessions. And to achieve all these things, you must trust and believe in God. You must accept Jesus Christ as ones personal saviour and heed to religious teachings for good character teachings and practice. For good moral values that help build dignity in a person.

The video below is posted here to help you reading this article to watch and understand how people suffer and struggle with poor working and  business conditions in Kenya and other African countries. But all in all they still pray, believe and trust in God that, one day God will hear their cry and do them well. (A life motivational point).

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HOODWINKED BELIEVERS

 

Many Believers have been hoodwinked

but they neither know it nor realize it. HOODWINKEDNESS CAN MAKE US LOOSE THE BLESSINGS OF THE LORD ASSIGNED TO US. Let's narrow down into the topic to discover what hoodwinked really is and how it happens.

I have never heard the Lord describe the Body of Christ quite like this until today. What is HOODWINKED, you ask? It is to be deceived, tricked, or duped. It means to be blindfolded, as if a hood was covering one's senses or to close the eyes. 

Because the Church has been misled, ill equipped, and not standing in their rightful authority, people have become so desperate for a move of God that they have settled for a counterfeit, mimicking spirit to convince them of a lie. They have turned to idol worship resulting in following man by propping them up on pedestals because they have a platform.

Enamored by charismatic gifts, they confuse it with anointing and are so busy looking for a savior, that they have forgotten to look to Jesus. They lack discernment and continue to run after what looks like God even though it is shrouded in witchcraft. This is the proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing scenario and many are so close that they are about to be bit.

Unfortunately, Believers do not trust themselves enough to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit and others refuse to obey Him because of what it will cost them. 

Please get alone with the Lord and ask for discernment. The Word of God assures you that if you seek Him, you will find Him and that His children hear His voice. I promise you that if you need a move of God, you can find it in your own living room, on a walking trail, in your car, or wherever you may be. The Bible says that if we cry out to the Lord He will bend down to hear us. You need no man, only Jesus. He is your High Priest and covering. The one who prays for you. 

Look, the Lord is calling us higher and expects more from the Remnant. He is tearing down idols this season and you do not want to be caught under the wreckage. Listen, when the Holy Spirit speaks and gives you revelation, do not reason it away. Believe Him. This is God's love and protection for you!

-Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. Galatians 6:7 NKJV

-Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.” I Corinthians 15:33 NKJV

“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you."  Matthew 7:7 NKJV

“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves."

Matthew 7:15 NKJV  

-My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.  John 10:27 NKJV

-I love the Lord because he hears my voice and my prayer for mercy. Because he bends down to listen, I will pray as long as I have breath!

Psalms 116:1-2 NLT

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Our God is always faithful and never fails. God responds to our problems even at the point of our giving up.