Recup of 2025

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A GOOD WIFE MATERIAL ALWAYS CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING POINTS WHICH OTHERS IGNORE...

Dear Wives...✍🏾

If you don't use sex as a weapon to punish your husband and to teach him a lesson; your husband will ... learn to build intimacy with you.

If you complain less and appreciate your husband more; he will enjoy your company and spend time with you more.

If you do not overreact about issues; your husband will confide in you more.

If you learn to tell your husband what is bothering you as opposed to keeping quiet and being moody; he will be able to solve issues with you.

If you learn to trust your husband without accusing him falsely, he will share with you about his female friends and colleagues.

If your demeanor is peaceful and not combative; your husband will look forward to coming home to you.

If you respond positively to your husband's flirts; he will enjoy being naughty with you.

If you care about his well-being and how his day has been as much as you want him to ask you "How was your day?"; he will not feel alone.

If you don't keep a record of wrongs, reminding him of what he did in the past; your husband will be motivated to invest more in a future with you.

If you don't praise another man more than your husband in his presence be it your pastor, colleague or celebrity; he will not feel insecure.

If you are confident about your body and beauty; your husband will find you extremely sexy.

If you don't tell him things like "You are not man enough", "You are a failure"; he will not feel attacked.

If you thank him for the little he has done; he will do more for you.

If you don't equate his value as a man to the money he has or doesn't have; he will be real with you and see a life partner who notices all of him in you.

Your behaviour either inspires your man to do more with you and for you, or discourages him. Don't discourage him then lament when he pulls away.

MEN, YOUR FRIEND'S WIFE CAN'T BE YOUR BESTIE AT ALL.

Listen up, Men

And when you find a friend,  don’t outwear your welcome; show up at all hours and he'll soon get fed up. [ Prov. 25 : 17 ]MSG

Your friend’s wife is not your friend. If that makes you uncomfortable, good. This isn’t about your comfort; it’s about boundaries, respect, and the unspoken code among men. 

The moment a woman says, “I do” to your friend, all those casual “bestie” vibes you thought were harmless need to end. Instantly. Permanently.

Let’s face it—no man wants another man, friend or not, hovering around his wife under the guise of friendliness or “just being close.” Familiarity breeds contempt, and whether you like it or not, crossing lines in the name of “friendship” is disrespectful. 

This isn’t about trust; it’s about integrity. It’s about understanding that boundaries don’t get blurred because you’re “like family.”

Here’s the hard truth: if you’re inserting yourself into your friend’s marriage, cracking “inside jokes” with his wife, or leaning into that “brotherly” vibe a little too often, you’re making it awkward. 

You might be feeding into your own ego, thinking, “We’re all just close,” but from the outside, it doesn’t look innocent. It looks intrusive. It’s not just his problem to address—it’s yours.

Your friend’s wife deserves respect—not in a superficial “I’m here if she needs anything” way, but in a way that shows restraint. 

Respect means maintaining distance and acknowledging that once she became his, that closeness you might have shared in the past is history. 

If she needs help, he’s got it covered. If they need support, there are proper channels—family, designated friends, or community support, not you stepping in as the “helpful friend.”

If you truly respect your friend, stay in your lane. Don’t get too familiar, don’t pry into her business, and don’t expect to be her confidant. 

Your loyalty lies with your friend, not in some perceived bond with his wife. She’s his priority

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NEVER DATE A WOMAN WHOM YOU CANNOT CORRECT DURING MISTAKES.

Dear young men

Never date a woman you cannot correct. If each time you try to correct her and she act so stubborn and always wanting to over power you, dump her she will destroy you and distract you from your purpose and vision.

Never date a woman who’s not submissive to your vision. The job of every woman in a man’s life is to submit to his vision and if the lady you are with does not push your vision or support it, she’s not fit for you.

Never date a woman who TALKS back, signs of toxicity right there brother, you’re a man and a lot of things are talking to you in your head and you don’t need another thing to be barking in your head instead of being your peace and calm you down. A woman who talks back is a disrespectful woman and if given a chance to further a relationship with her she will destroy you.

Never date a woman who moves from bar to clubs, to tarvens and back to bar drinking and drinking, regardless of her personality there’s nothing good there, you need a trophy not a grooviest. It’s better for a man to at least drink not a woman.

Never date a woman who’s still in touch with her exes and defending them for whatever reasons! Ex is an Ex regardless of what it is, if your lady is still in touch with her exes and sometimes defend them in front of you as her man!! Dump that thing!!

Never date a woman who is surrounded by people your spirit does not resonate with, if your spirit is telling you that these friends your woman has are not good for her or maybe your spirit man is telling you that maybe they are sellers and if she doesn’t want to let go of them, let her go with them. The quality of a woman is known by the kind of friends she surround herself with.

Women have destroyed kings!!

Today’s generation of women is chaos and you have to be extra careful brother before giving your heart anyhow, you’re a man don’t love hard!! You must love your purpose and vision more than a woman!!

Don’t be a weak man who abandon his purpose and vision and give up to unworthy things.