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This is a Strategy for restoring Peace needed for humanity plan of Success through Salvation. Read Romans 10:9-10
Many People assume strong relationships come from big romantic highs—surprise trips, expensive gifts, perfect proposals...✍🏽
Those fade quickly.
What actually sustains a partnership is steady, everyday reliability.
Psychologist John Gottman’s decades of research on thousands of couples found that stable, happy relationships maintain roughly 5 positive interactions for every 1 negative one, especially during conflict. Outside arguments, the ratio can climb even higher.
This doesn’t require constant grand effort. It builds through ordinary, repeated small acts:
- Remembering and asking follow-up questions about something minor they mentioned (a work stress, a friend’s news).
- Choosing patience and a calm tone when you’re irritated or tired.
- Doing exactly what you promised, even trivial things like picking up groceries or sending a quick text.
- Turning toward their “bids” for connection—small reaches like sharing a funny meme or complaining about traffic—instead of ignoring or dismissing them.
- Offering unasked help on tasks they dislike.
- Checking in genuinely: “How’s your head after that meeting?”
These accumulate into a buffer of trust and goodwill.
When real problems hit—financial strain, health issues, family drama—that reservoir of small positives prevents disconnection. Without it, one fight can spiral.
Big gestures impress briefly but can’t replace daily dependability.
Consistency isn’t flashy. It’s the quiet work that makes love last. Focus on the routine positives. They matter more than the fireworks.
1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;
2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.
3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.
4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;
5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;
6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;
7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;
8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;
9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;
10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;
12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.
13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;
14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;
15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;
16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;
17. Never give advice until you’re asked;
18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;
19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;
20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and
21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
22.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message"
APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have!
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Men — listen and listen well. Every time you have sex, you’re not just busting a nut. You’re signing a blood contract that ties your soul, your destiny, and your bloodline to that woman. They lied to you that it’s just pleasure. It’s deeper. It’s spiritual. And it’s deadly if you play reckless.
1️⃣ THE BLOOD GATE
God placed blood at the entrance of a woman for a reason. When that hymen breaks, it’s a covenant sealed. The first man owns a part of her forever. She carries his imprint in her spirit.
2️⃣ NO SEX WITHOUT SPIRITS
When you sleep with her, you don’t just share a bed. You share spirits. If she carries demons, trauma, curses — congratulations, now they’re yours.
3️⃣ LEGACIES DESTROYED IN BED
Great men lose empires, strength, and peace not in battlefields but in bedrooms. Lust has killed more kings than war ever did.
4️⃣ WOMEN WHO SLEEP AROUND ARE SPIRITUALLY BROKEN
They’ve tied their souls to men who were never theirs. That’s why so many can’t bond, can’t stay, can’t build. Their spirit is scattered, shattered, and fragmented.
5️⃣ MEN WHO CHASE EVERY SKIRT BECOME EMPTY
Every time you enter a woman, you leave a piece of yourself behind. That’s why you feel drained, restless, and weak after casual sex. You’re bleeding spiritually.
6️⃣ THE DEVIL STILL USES WOMEN AS THE DOOR
Adam lost Eden because he followed lust. Men today are still losing their destiny through the same trap. Different fruit. Same serpent.
7️⃣ DESTINY TRANSFER IS REAL
You think you’re just smashing, but you’re tying your future to hers. If she’s cursed, reckless, or spiritually polluted — you inherit her storms.
8️⃣ CHAOS IN HOMES ISN’T RANDOM
Fatherless kids, divorces, abortions — they’re not accidents. They’re fruits of broken covenants and lust-driven choices.
9️⃣ NATURE DOESN’T LIE
Animals have sex for reproduction. Only humans perverted it into entertainment — and only humans are spiritually collapsing because of it.
🔟 THE UGLY TRUTH
Every hookup adds spirits to your soul. That’s why men walking in lust carry confusion, depression, addiction, and emptiness. They’re not themselves anymore — they’re a cocktail of everyone they ever slept with.
1️⃣1️⃣ REAL MEN UNDERSTAND COVENANT
Sex was designed to seal marriage. Outside that, it’s rebellion. And rebellion always attracts destruction.
1️⃣2️⃣ LUST IS A KING KILLER
If you don’t master your flesh, your flesh will bury your throne.
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Stop lying to yourself. Every time you lay with a woman, you tie your bloodline to hers. You inherit her demons, and she inherits yours. If you don’t guard your seed, you’ll destroy your own destiny with your own hands. Sex is not a game — it’s a covenant, and covenants don’t break easy.
Don’t marry a woman who has no parental control. A woman who was never guided, corrected, or disciplined at home will become a problem in your house.
Before a woman is given to a man, she must have been under authority; taught respect, responsibility, and restraint. That’s where she learns structure. That’s where she learns to submit.
An unruly woman will destroy you faster than poverty. Many men rush into marriage blinded by attraction. They don’t check her foundation.
Discipline, patience, accountability, and manners are not born in adulthood; they are trained in the home. If she never had that, you’ll spend your marriage trying to raise her instead of building with her.
A woman without a home can’t raise a home for you. Her primary strength is nurturing. She must have been nurtured herself to nurture others.
Shape, beauty, and body fade; but character lasts. Go for a woman who has proper home training, values, and respect for authority.
And you too, learn submission to structure and discipline. Leadership without accountability is chaos.
A home builder will bless your destiny more than a beautiful distraction ever will. Blow job is not enough!
