BE A TRUE WOMAN WHO CAN DEFEND YOUR OWN DIGNITY.

Woman Diary:

It's possible for any man to ask for sex in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that sex, can't keep him..(Sex isn't enough)

There are two major factors ladies complain about sex in a relationship:

√ After giving him my body he left me..

√ He left because I refused to have sex with him..

Ladies Listen, Sex isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man.

If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside Sex, Please remain Single...

There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple n juice style, step pillows style, etc ...

Men love intelligent ladies...

Men love ladies with ideas..

Men love respectful ladies...

Sex is very cheap these days, anybody can buy it.

You need to build yourself beyond sex.

Leave make-ups and be a productive lady.

Men are looking for ladies with ideas and solution not those who paint their faces with different colours.

What a man wants is beauty with brain not make ups with boobs or hips..

Have a productive week ahead, won't you?

@highlight

YOU NEED PATIENCE AS YOU WAIT FOR PROMISES MADE TO YOU BY OTHERS TO COME TRUE.

1. If someone tells you, I love you, give it time, don't rush it .

2. If someone promises to stand by you, give it time to see if they truly will, don't rush 

 

3. If someone offers you help, give it time to see if their actions match their words, don't rush  

4. If someone says they care, give it time to see if their care is consistent, don't rush  

5. If someone wants to be in your life, give it time to see if they truly belong, don't rush  

6. If someone says they understand, give it time to see if they truly empathize, don't rush  

7. If someone wants to change, give it time to see if they follow through, don't rush  

8. If someone promises a future together, give it time to see if they are truly committed, don't rush  

9. If someone says they’ll support your dreams, give it time to see if they act on it, don't rush  

10. If someone claims to be loyal, give it time to see if their loyalty is proven, don't rush 

11. If someone says they’ll be there in tough times, give it time to see if they stand firm, don't rush  

12. If someone promises a better tomorrow, give it time to see if they are working toward it, don't rush

  

13. If someone wants to build trust, give it time to see if trust is earned, don't rush

14. If someone tells you they’ll never leave, give it time to see if they keep their promise, don't rush  

15. If someone says they want the best for you, give it time to see if their actions align, don't rush  

16. If someone says they want to change your life, give it time to see if they are truly changing it, don't rush  

17. If someone says they’re always here for you, give it time to see if they really are, don't rush  

18. If someone promises you love forever, give it time to see if it lasts, don't rush  

19. If someone says they respect you, give it time to see if their actions reflect it, don't rush  

20. If someone claims to be your friend, give it time to see if they prove it, don't rush  

21. If someone offers to help you grow, give it time to see

HAS YOUR SOCIETY TOUGHT YOU ANYTHING ABOUT LIFE?

Let's follow this story and see what the society has tought one of us about the truth of life.
    Society has tought women that childbearing is  something we do later once we’ve done all the “better”, “funner”, and “more important things” first.

Instead of raising woman to view children as blessings from the Lord, society teaches woman that children are a burden.

Children and a family are no longer presented as the goal but rather something we may stumble into after we’ve truly “lived life”.

I drank this koolaid and prior to the Lord I never wanted children.

When I got pregnant, I was terrified of “missing out” on what I thought was life.

I’m so thankful that the Lord had different plans for me than I had for myself.

As I’ve embarked on this homeschooling journey, I am truly realizing the toxic society that most of us are indoctrinated in.

We are literally being spoonfed lies that being with our children all day, teaching them, and raising them is unreasonable or reserved for the few.

It’s also clear that the way that society is set up these days that it is very difficult for a family to be raised on one income.

But what I’m realizing and what I’m seeing so clearly in this season is that children are not a burden.

Children are blessings from the Lord.

Motherhood is incredibly difficult, I would even say it’s the hardest thing that I’ve ever done.

Part of that is because I was not raised in a society that fosters motherhood.

I was not raised in a society that teaches women how to be women and I’ve had to go against many molds to be where I’m at today.

I was not raised in the society that values a mother, and especially a mother that stays at home to raise her children.

In this season, I’m seeing the beauty in God’s design in a new and fresh way.

My prayer is that more women would come to the revelation of what truly living looks like before I did close to 40.

Being a wife and a mother is a beautiful gift, albeit difficult and demanding.

Motherhood is a daily opportunity to let go of self for others.

Children are not a burden. 

Children are a blessing.

Cooking and cleaning and caring for them is a wonderful and precious way to spend your time.

We’re not missing out on living by having a family but rather we have found the better thing & it will not be taken from us.

Be blessed.

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By Thomas Omulumo