MARRIAGE AND ITS CHALLENGES

       It should be remembered that, marriage is an institution where children are brought up, taken care of and provided for, for all their basic needs and wants. Serious parents will always be responsible for delivering all this. It's always the   of duty of all parents to deliver these as a team. But most women  believe that it is a father's responsibility. 

       Yes it can be so but if we rely our minds on such weak point, problems may occur during the time the husband's job determined. When a woman try to keep her pace in helping the husband to provide for the family, things work well and any the husbands job may be missing, the woman's effort will hold and sustain the family as the husband looks for another job. To many who have good understanding, they will support this this issues that providing for the family, is a sharable issue among the spouse, which is supposed to be done with lots of understanding and dedication,  and in a Godly manner.

        For every marriage and entire family to be successful, there must be Godly principles governing in it. Minus Godly love in a marriage, things cannot work. When things don't work, the whole situation becomes a challenge the rest of the family members i.e  children. Such great challenge ends up breaking the whole marriage relationship and the spouse may seperate. This seperation puts children on a desperate bay and develops parents into a single parenthood family.  In Kenya, many broken family institutions are developing into single parent family  to. According to God's word, Single parent family is not the best way of life as God instituted it to be. As Christians we ought to live according to the word and principles of God and not according to our own ways. 

         Now days there are so many families that are evolving and adapting single parenthood lifestyle. Many ladies are abandoning their marriages and jumping into single parenthood lifestyle. We need to, come back to our senses and discover the will of God about the kind of life we are supposed to live after our marriages. Let us follow the guidelines given to us in the holy scriptures, and in all other books given by other religions that care about family and domestic affairs in marriage institutions.

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