There are many reasons that course marriages to break up.Today let's focus on five: (5)
1. Unfaithfulness
2. Lack of Transparency
3. Poor Management of family resources
4. The way of solving domestic issues.
5. Poverty
From LIFELINE OPINION desk, we are taking a critical look on the five big issues as listed above that mostly break up Marriages and families.
Everyone needs peace and liberty. Everyone believes in themselves as being fair from their own point of view to all issues they come across on Marriages. Many people will always say they are right even when they are wrong. Some people will always say YES when they mean NO. Some say NO when they mean YES. This are the characteristics and nature of all human beings.
This is why God gave Moses the Ten commandments to help him govern, lead mould, and spearhead the people of God the Israelites. ie. into the form God wanted. So this is to mean that all of us human beings are not perfect. But our perfection comes from the Lord our God through His son Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. Jesus can only work in our lives when we accept Him and become saved. This is the only way our perfection can come about.
Ok back to our topic, the five Reasons that break our marriages are connected to the power of evil Satan. To be Unfaithful and lack transparency while in a marriage or elsewhere in life, shows that you are bearing fruits of evil spirit, In our a marriages, God expect us to be faithful and loyal so that our marriages can work and survive. (1) FAITHFULNESS
You can only be trusted by your partner depending on the degree of faithfulness in you. The people who blasphem the name of Jesus Christ, lack faithfuless in themselves. When there's a cheating behavior among or between the married partners, faithfulness is not there or missing. We accept God through believing in the name of Jesus Christ our savior, the holy spirit teaches us how to be faithful and trustworthy for the sake of God.This aspect is transpired in our entire lives. The virtue is then installed in our lives thus causing us to be faithful in all our ways. When the spirit of God dwells in us we become faithful.
(2) LACK IF TRANSPARENCY
Transparency helps us to be trusted by others whom we share the same life with. Your partner can only trust you when you potray a character of Transparency. We can only measure other people's behavior by looking at how they present themselves before us and other people. Married partners who are not transparent to one another, become unable to trust and continue with life.
(3) POOR MANAGEMENT OF RESOURCES
When family resources and property are not managed well, disagreement and disputes arise. This courses fighting and eventually the breaking of marriages. Partners in a working marriages need to have good knowledge of how to manage their resources and property they own.
(4) THE WAY OF SOLVING DOMESTIC PROBLEMS.
There are things that matter in life depending on how they are handled when they arise. When there is a domestic disagreement arisen in the marriage, we should know the right way of solving such. Sometimes a small issue may change into a big issue which can course more problems due to poor approach of the issue. So we ought to be very careful when we solve marriage and family Problems. There are many institutions which can be included in family disputes solving. These institutions are like, Church, Counsel of Elders, Government institutions, Non governmental organizations (NGOs) etc. When a matter becomes difficult for the married partners to solve such institutions should be consulted before final decision is made.
(5) POVERTY
Sometimes the poverty level may affect a marriage. Especially it happens for ladies, from a study, it's shown that some ladies do pack.and run away from.men who are said not to be hardworking and thus promoting poverty in the family. Men who are lazy, make their women go extra mile of providing for the family. This issue makes ladies to feel out of place and so to some extent, some may decides to pack and go away to start a single parenthood lifestyle, or to get married elsewhere. So it's a warm and polite encouragement to men to try and work more hard though nowadays to get a job is hard. A hardworking men who are always ready to.provide for the family, will always be a prestige for the entire family.
Like wise, women are also advised to work hard of performing home duties. Ladies who are lazy and don't perform well in domestic duties, may cause disagreement with their husbands. Such disagreement may be extended to breaking of the Marriage. So both men and women ought to work hard to protect their marriages from more problems that may couse devotion breakages.
