PLEASE GUYS DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN A GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL AND A WIFE MATERIAL.

       

Men be careful when you want to marry. Marry a lady who is mature and a wife material, and not just a girlfriend material. You have got all the time and all it takes to learn and know her behaviours during your courtship. It's during this time of courtship that you can be able to learn and understand your woman's behaviours. Ladies should also use the same time as opportunity to learn and know if the man they are in courtship with or planning to marry have true qualities of a husband material and not a boyfriend material. 

         This is always a two way traffic and both parties should take responsibility for their own better to ensure that, at the end of everything, there comes a wedding ceremony day. You must ensure that you are being united to the right person with whom you will not complain about that things are not Ok. It takes wisdom and prayers to achieve the best out of all this. During courtship time some people are tricky and hide off their bad behaviours. They pretend to show off good behaviours only. So it's good enough and wise for these partners to imply or use some technical tricks in order to capture the true character of a person they are soon marrying.

          I have seen a case where a marriage ceremony was carried successfully. After a short period of time of staying together, ie two months later the couple separated or divorced when the lady was pregnant. Right now it's two years ago since seperation occurred, the lady and the kid came back home to her parents and the man is staying alone at his parents home. So using such examples, you can easily realize that this couple did not take time to study one another's behaviour before being united as husband and wife.

         Let us look at this  four illustrations that shows differences between a wife material and a girlfriend material.

(1). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL  IS A SPENDER

        When you're dating a girlfriend, your expenses will triple. You'll be spending as if you're paying tax to federal government on the relationship.

Take a girlfriend to a fast food restaurant, she places her orders without caring about the price and your salary, and she NEVER tries to split the bill at any time. She always order high price food and will always show love for expensive products before the man.

WIFE MATERIAL IS CONSERVATIVE.

       When you're dating a woman who can be a wife material, take her to a fast food restaurant, she'll ask how much for an item before she orders it, and she'll even refuse to pick an item with an exorbitant price or high price, unless you insist. Sometimes where prices are not fixed she will try to bargain for a lower price bid. Sometimes she can just decide to request you to allow her pay for the bill if she is a working class woman.

        A wife material lady will always try to save you Money, She considers your pocket and she cares for your tomorrow. A wife material will always help you some household duties before you ask her to do so mostly when she pays you a visit at your house.

(2). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL BELONGS TO EVERYBODY 

       Girlfriend is always receiving calls 24/7 (even in your presence) as if she's a customer care agent. On her phone, a girlfriend is always on her social media platforms chatting people.

Girlfriend is always coming down from different cars,

       She's always flirting, collecting gifts and cash from different suitors without shame. She even demands it from them if they don't give her. She'll make trouble if you confront her. 

Check her phone at your peril, she'll tell you "there's nothing going on" but her chats/friendship with other guys is too close for comfort. 

WIFE MATERIAL BELONGS TO ONE MAN

         A Wife is not available for every Man.

She's a One Man's Lady, she rebuffs suitors and their gifts. She is always sensitive and conscious about the language men use in her presence so she will easily rebuke men who try to seduce her.

(3). GIRLFRIEND IS AFTER MATERIAL THINGS.

A Girlfriend is like a Tax Collector.On HER birthday, you'll take her out.On YOUR birthday you'll still take her out. 

Christmas that is JESUS'S birthday, she'll still collect gifts from you and if you don't buy for her she will bitterly. 

Valentine, Easter, New Year, every season is an opportunity for her to collect gifts and money from you, but she doesn't reciprocate.

WIFE MATERIAL COLLECTS AND GIVES

A Wife material will plan a surprise birthday for you on your birthday, no matter how small.

She doesn't just only receive, she at time gives. 

(4). GIRLFRIEND MATERIAL IS REBELLIOUS

A girlfriend gives Headache

She uses equal rights and feminism spirit. 

She always prefer good gifts from you and most of the time she will prefer to visit you when you have money or when you can take her out.

         Thank you so much for reading this article about differentiating between a girlfriend material and a wife material. May God bless you and give you wisdom in choosing the right person who can suit your life. That person who can understand you and accept you the way you are. God is not happy when we live life full of complaints and   fighting every time just after marriage. God likes people who live together happily and thankfully praising HIS name.

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