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To be a leader, simply means to be a servant. To be a servant simply means to serve all people equally without any form of discrimination. Let us narrow down to the real qualities of leadership. Before we look this qualities we must understand that there are some aspects connected to leadership.
1.Leadership by profession-
This aspect in leadership tells us that, we must be trained professionally in order to become the kind of leader we want. This aspect enables our leadership to come in stages depending on the level of education and training. Examples of this type of leadership is found in Educational institutions, Government ministrys and Manufacturing companies etc
2.Leadership by natural gift.
Some people have natural gifts of leadership from God. They know how to lead and can mentor others into leadership. Such people always manage several projects under their leadership. Examples of this category are people like Church leaders. From just scratches, Some own big church organisations and projects internationally.
1.HONESTY
Honesty is an important aspect in leadership carrier. It helps people understand who you are and how you handle them. It potrays your inner heart and how you mind about others. Minus this aspect in you, you can't handle and manage company resources and property well.
2. EFFICIENT COMMUNICATION
As a leader, you must have good and efficient communication skills. This helps you to interact well with all people in your organisation. A good leader is supposed to know more than two languages and have a know how of different cultures within the society.
3. KNOWLEDGE
A leader without knowledge is like a leader without any power and authority. Knowledge gives us exposure to what people are, what they want and how they behave. Knowledge overrides other qualities in leadership cycles but cannot displace any of them. All aspects need to in place in order to accomplish everything well. Knowledge is power but has to be applied with wisdom. When you lack wisdom, knowledge will lack wheels to ride on. So wisdom is a pivotal element for effective knowledge.
4. CONSISTENCY
A good leader must be consistent in doing and performing duties. Consistency helps a leader to act according to what his or her minds speaks.
Consistently acting in a manner that reflects your true intentions is vital for cultivating a reputation of integrity. Such consistency is a daily commitment that shapes the essence of your leadership identity. Therefore, integrity emerges from the steadfast alignment between your goals and actions. This can really help the people you lead to understand your position and be able to define what kind of leader you are.
5. VISIONARY OUTLOOK
Visionary outlook involves seeing beyond the immediate or present, understanding the bigger picture, and recognizing opportunities where others seechallenges. It's about anticipating changes and being prepared to adapt. This requires a blend of imagination, foresight, and an unwavering belief in the possibility of what can be done to solve situations. A visionary outlook can assure a good future for the organisation. Many organisations that fail lack leaders who possess visionary outlook.
6. SELFLESSNESS
A good leader should have a selfless qualities.
Selfless leadership is putting the needs others before ones own, and is motivated by a desire to serves worthy cause. Selfless leaders are concerned with the success of the whole, rather than their own personal gain. This quality is very important in helping people people to define and identify the kind of leaders in our society.
Some of the characteristics of selfless leaders include:
(1). Seeing the value of others:
Selfless leaders recognize the value of others and align that value with a worth cause.
(2). Inspiring Others:
Selfless leaders inspire others to work with them on a worthy cause.
(3). Making others feel valued:
Selfless leaders make others feel valued and unlock their full potential.
(4). Being a giving person:
Selfless leaders are people who give freely and don't expect anything in return. They give out of their clean heart.
(5). Practicing servant leadership:
Selfless leaders practice servant leadership which involves focusing on organizational goals and helping team members thrive and become effective.
(6). Having Vision and Purpose:
Selfless leaders always have vision and purpose. (7). They are honest and open minded and have nothing to hide.
(8). They are Focused, Flexible and Humble. They don't brugg or Bost.
In conclusion, selfless leadership is a difficult trait to learn and require constant practice. However it's beneficial if a leader or employer builds trust with employees and Inspires them.
7. COURAGE
Courage is the quality of being ready and willing to face negative situations involving danger or pain. A close synonym is bravery. Showing courage is often thought of as facing such situations without fear, but it also involves facing them despite fear.
It takes courage for a leader to do some things that all people are looking at as difficult. A courageous leader came make the organisation achieve more and exceedingly. We need to welcome Jesus Christ in our lives so that he can give us courage to do things.
8. WILL POWER:
Strong willpower is an important characteristic for leaders in all positions —whether you're leading a family, a small business, a team or organization, or, most important, leading yourself! These are some benefits of stronger willpower: It provides more choices about how to think and respond emotionally to different situations. As a leader with will power character, the hope for who you are leading is guaranteed. People delight in a leader who has will power to control things.
CONCLUSION
The Bible has a few perspectives on good leadership, eg Matthew 20:26, Proverbs 4:23 and 11:14
Serving others
The Bible says that leaders should serve others, rather than oppress them with authority. Jesus demonstrated this by humbling himself and becoming obedient to the point of death.
Leading by example as in John 13:15
Christian leaders should follow the example of Christ and set a Christ-like example for others.
Understanding congregants
Effective Christian leaders should try to understand the hardships and struggles of their congregants.
Confidence in God
Good leaders should have confidence in God and prepare and pursue excellence.
Willingness to help
Christian leaders should be willing to help those in need.
Lordship of Christ
Christian leaders should desire Jesus Christ to be Lord in all areas of life.
Avoiding pride and arrogance
Leaders should realize that serving others is the only way to lead with a pure heart, free of pride and arrogance.
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4...When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
5...Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
6...Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.
7...Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.
8... Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
9...Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.
10... Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
11... Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals
12...Respect your time.
13... Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
14... Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
15... Be scarce sometimes.
16...Be a giver more than a receiver.
17...Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
18...Treat people exactly the way you want to be treated.
19... Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
20...Be good at what you do
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People do this things that come after this short music without care and knowing how much it can cost them.
These are the things people without caring.
(1).Calling everyone dear, dearling, dearest, sweet, sweetie, and all those "harmless" pet names.
(2). Calling and allowing the opposite sex to call you sexy, curvy, angel, idol, etc.
(3). Pouting your mouth and posting the picture on the social media (You give more focus to the lîps).
(4). Turning your bum to the camera and posting the picture on the social media. Same for ladies who focus more on the chest region and Hips area.
(5). Hugging, too much, touching and embracing every Tom, Mary and Harry Jane etc.
(6). Allowing the opposite sex give you sexy compliments and secretly or publicly enjoying the compliment e.g. "I like your figure", "You've got kissable lîps," "Your moustache makes you look so sexy," "Your height is tripping. I like guys who are muscular and six feet tall." You smile like an angel. Your smile make me think far.
(7). You allowed your EX back into your life.
(8). You allow the opposite sex friend to visit you anyday, anytime and you spend longer time with them just laughing any howly.
(9). You visit the opposite sex friend anyday, any time and spend much time with them until odd hours and you demand to be escored to your home .
(10). You "flirt" harmlessly with the opposite sex.
(11). As a married man/woman, you chat with the opposite sex far into the night.
(12). You give "harmless" pecks and kisses.
(13). Your dates are always done in lonely and secret places.
(14). You counsel and pray with the opposite sex in a lonely or dark room.
(15). You end up having emotional and physical sexuämal affair and lose yourself respect for life! Some lose their marriage forever.
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(1)Women No man is perfect. And Men no woman is perfect understand one another.
2) Men are like children. So be like his mother. And Men women are like children so be like their father.
3) Hear quickly; talk slowly.
4) Never compete with a man and women never compete with women.
5) Never try to be equal with him.
6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.
7) Don't be too jealous with him. This is good for your peace of mind.
You may check on his phone if you want, but that isn't necessary.
9) Always be honest as a wife or a husband.
10) Men Never leave your house for a long distance without her permission. And ladies don't go far away from home without your husband's knowledge and permission.
11) Make sure you know the food your husband likes, and prepare that at least twice a week if money allows And men know exactly what your wives like when you come back home with. If money allows, be buying that thing regularly.
12) Don't let your husband get in the house with a parcel in his hand.
13) Try to make a budget together.
14) Be his adviser, not a critiser.
15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of husband.
16) Learn good things from your mother.
17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.
18) Learn to smile at your husband.
19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.
20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".
21) When your husband becomes angry, stop talking and make sure you dont become hungry too. Instead just be sober and play cool and ask for
22) Keep the bedroom clean always.
23) Never put cloths on the bed. Some men hate that.
24) Be a clean woman.
25) Look romantic.
26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister.
27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.
28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.
29) Go to church together.
30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.
THIS IS A SECRET OF HAPPY HOME. welcome.
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(1). Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure.
(2). Porn and masturbation is the greatest killer of success. It stunt and destroy your brain. Stop it.
(3). Avoid drinking alcohol like a camel drinking water. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool. Alcohol cannot help restore your minds. Alcohol cannot reduce your stress....
(4). Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.
(5). If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.
(6). No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% is your responsibility. Only God can help you but before this happens, you have a big role to play. God intervenes in what you started.
(7). You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.
(8). Find new ways to make money. Make money and ignore the jokers who mocks and make fun of you.
(9). You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline. Be disciplined!
(10). Avoid drugs. Avoid weed, avoid alcohol, about shisha, Marijuana, Heroine and many others. When you use them they destroy your thinking capacity. Meaning that you cannot plan anything.
(11). Learn skills on YouTube not wasting your time consuming shitty content on Netflix.
(12). No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.
(13). Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.
(14). Prioritize your family. Defend them even if they stink, even if they are idiots. Cover their nakedness.
(15). Find new opportunities and learn from people ahead of you.
(16). Trust no one. Not even a single person no matter how tempted you may be. Believe in yourself and be determined, then do it courageously and God will will intervene and make ends meet for your sake and then you succeed.
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Life Without Jesus - A life without Jesus is a life of catching nothing. You have the God-shaped hole in your life that you are craving to have filled but never can without God.
Life In Jesus - Before you can do things in God, you must learn who you are in Him. If you don't understand this revelation, prayer will be a chore, discipline, and a burden. You don't pray so God can love you; you pray because He loves you.
Life With Jesus - As much as Christianity is about the unconditional love of God, it is also about continuous growth in God. We don't change by trying, we change by growing. Growing people change.
Life Because of Jesus - The Lord wants to bring a miracle into your net - your family, finances, health, marriage, and career. Going deep without a net doesn’t bring a miracle catch. If you want to have a catch, you need to have a net.
Life For Jesus - Never leave Jesus for a fish but sometimes, you might have to leave fish for Jesus. A real breakthrough brings you closer to Jesus, not further from Him.
The greatest fulfillment in life comes not from a miracle catch but in following the Miracle Maker where He leads. May we live for God's purpose, in Jesus' name.
RECEIVE THE MIRACLES OF SPEAKING IN TOUNGES.
You Have to Receive Jesus: When you believe in Jesus, you receive the Holy Spirit; when you speak in tongues, you release the Holy Spirit.
Relax: You don’t receive this gift by working hard or praying earnestly. It’s a gift.
It Involves Your Choice: The Lord will not override your free will. It’ll have to be your choice to open your mouth and release the sound.
You Need Faith: Everything with God requires faith. You release the sound by faith and God adds the meaning.
You Must Remove the Fear That the Tongues You Speak May Not be From God: The tongues you speak will come from you, they won’t be demonic. Trust in God and in His Scripture.
LEARN HOW TO FORGIVE AND DO IT.
Understand that forgiveness isn’t about forgetting or excusing the abuse.
Realize it’s an act of obedience towards God.
Ask God for the grace to forgive.
Remember it’s not a feeling; it’s a journey.
Trust in God’s truth and let feelings catch up.
Differentiate between forgiveness and trust.
Seek wisdom and support from a counselor, pastor, or friend.
Stay connected and I wish all happy life and marriage institutions.
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The purpose of marriage from christian religious perspective.
It’s for the union between a man and a woman. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh.Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.
Mark 10:7-9 -- Marriage is God’s plan•
--- Marriage is between a man and a woman•
MARRIAGE IS TO BE PERMANENT
It’s for the multiplication of the human race. But did He not make them one, having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, And let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth. Malachi 2:15We are all alive here today because some couples decided to get together. It’s for protection for kids. God invented marriage for the protection of children. We all know that kids grow better, healthier, stronger when they grow up in a stable family with a mom and a dad. God knew that human children needed a safe environment.
It’s for holiness. God created marriage for the perfection of our character. It is in relationships that we learn to be unselfish and to be loving. And no relationship has a greater impact on your life than marriage, if you get married. Maturity and the purpose of life is to grow up and realize it’s not all about you.
IT’S FOR THE CONSTRUCTION OF SOCIETY.
Marriage is the fundamental building block of every community, church, state, nation, society and culture. If you know anything about history you know that where marriages are strong, cultures and nations are strong. You know that wherever marriages and families are weak, cultures and nations are in decline.
It’s for reflection of our union with Christ. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:25-32
Understanding the Differences Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered. 1 Peter 3:7 Humor: Scientists on how to name a computer: he or she? A computer is a HE1. Turn them on in order to get their attention2. They should solve the problem, but instead, they are the problem3. As soon as you commit to one, you will wait for a little while you could get a better modelA computer is a SHE because:
(1.)No one but their creator can understand them
(2.)The smallest mistake is stored for long term memory
(3.) After buying it you spend more time on accessories.
COMMON CRITICISMS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
Men say that women are: •
- Too emotional•
- Don’t feel the pressure to provide
- Talk too much Women say men are:
- Not sensitive• Don’t share housework•
- Don’t listen
Women say that men:
- Are insensitive•
- Don’t share in housework•
- Don’t listen
BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN:
1.Womens' right brain is caring, mens' left brain is logical. In a 1981 study by Dr. Rogger Sherry from age of 16 to 26, two chemicals are released that slow development of right size in men. Therefore we as men don’t remember the same. We react to stuff not the same. Men say 3 times more in public than in private, women opposite.
(2).Women enjoy the process; men focus on the goal. Women love romance; men love sex. Men will give emotion to get sex; women will give sex to get emotions. Drink water from your own cistern, and running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, streams of water in the streets? Proverbs 5:15-16Man is a fountain; the woman is a well.
(3).Women need sensitivity; men need space. Men, when stressed, become focused and withdrawn; women become overwhelmed and emotionally involved. Men feel better by solving a problem; women feel better by talking about the problem.
(4).Men have authority; women have intuition. Men, don’t be dictators. Women, don’t be manipulators.
His Needs and Her Needs.
Man’s Primary Needs.
Honor and respect Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. Ephesians 5:33
(1). Honor him where you want him to be, not where he is at right now.
(2). Sex Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 1 Corinthians 7:3 It’s not just his want, but his need.
(3). Shared activity Now it came to pass, when he had been there a long time, that Abimelech king of the Philistines looked through a window, and saw, and there was Isaac, showing endearment to Rebekah his wife. Genesis 26:8 The word “endearment” (Strongs h6711) means to laugh, sport, mock, to jest, make sport, toy with. Isaac and Rebekkah were playing and having fun.
(4). Support at homeThat they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed. Titus 2:4-5
WOMAN’S PRIMARY NEEDS
SECURITY
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. Ephesians 5:25
(1) A woman needs her man to be a sacrificial, sensitive and faithful provider. This makes her feel secure.
(2.) Soft, non-sexual affectionLet the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 1st Corinthians 7:3God has called husbands to render affection to his wife.
(3.) Open and honest communicationHusbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5:25-28 Jesus washes His church with His words; husbands must do the same!
(4.) Leadership For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Ephesians 5:23 Man is the head that should lead the family, and woman is the crown that beautifies the family! An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones. Proverbs 12:4
Covenant, Not a Contract Yet you say, “For what reason?” Because the LORD has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously, yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant. Malachi 2:14 The concept of covenant is important in the Bible. The word testament is really another word for covenant. The Bible is comprised of two parts, the Old Covenant and the New Covenant (Old Testament and New Testament).
5 COVENANTS IN THE BIBLE:
1. Noahic Covenant (Genesis 9)
2. Abrahamic Covenant (Genesis 12, 15)
3. The Mosaic Covenant (Exodus 19-24)
4. The Davidic Covenant (2 Samuel 7)
5. The New Covenant (Jeremiah 31)
COVENANT VS CONTRACT:
(1). A contract involves part of your life; a covenant involves your whole life.
(2). A contract has an expiration; a covenant is for life.
(3). The contract is written in ink, the covenant is written in blood.
WHAT IS A MARRIAGE COVENANT?
A contract is an agreement between two people for the purpose of protecting their rights, limiting their responsibilities, and safeguarding their interests. A covenant is an unconditional surrendering and laying down of your life and your rights while increasing your responsibilities and safeguarding the interests of your covenant mate.
THE IMPORTANCE OF A COVENANT MINDSET.
(1)You have to see marriage as a covenant if you want to be committed to marriage.
(2). Have a greater commitment to God than you are to the constitution of marriage.
(3). Develop a greater commitment to marriage than you are to each other.
(4). Remove the word “divorce” from your marriage conversations.
(5). Don’t let thoughts “I made a mistake marrying this person” take root in your mind.
(6). Prenuptial agreements are a sign that you don’t view marriage as a covenant.
(7). If your marriage becomes permanent, the problems become temporary. If your marriage is temporary, your problems might become permanent.
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