HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐇𝐔𝐒𝐁𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

1. Feed him

2. Sleep with him

3. Leave him in peace

4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)

5. Don't bother him with his movements

6. Clean the house

7. Wash his clothes

8. Always pray for him.

So what's so hard about that?

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐖𝐈𝐅𝐄 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘:

It's really not too difficult but... To make a wife happy, a husband only needs to be:

1. a friend

2. a companion

3. a lover

4. a brother

5. a father

6. a master

7. a chef

8. an electrician

9. a plumber

10. a mechanic

11. a carpenter

12. a decorator

13. a stylist

14. a sexologist

15. a gynecologist

16. a psychologist

17. a pest exterminator

18. a psychiatrist

19. a healer/prayer

20. a good listener

21. an organizer

22. a good father

23. very clean

24. sympathetic

25. athletic

26. warm

27. attentive

28. gallant

29. intelligent

30. funny

31. creative

32. tender

33. strong

34. understanding

35. tolerant

36. prudent

37. ambitious

38. capable

39. courageous

40. determined

41. true

42. dependable

43. passionate

𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄𝐓𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎:

44. give her compliments regularly

45. go shopping with her

46. be honest

47. not stress her out

48. not look at other girls

𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐓𝐈𝐌𝐄, 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐒𝐎:

49. give her lots of attention

50. give her lots of time, especially time for herself

51. give her lots of space, allow to visit her family members and your relatives.

𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘 𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐎𝐑𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐓:

  52. To learn not to ask for change when u give money for shopping. Whatever u give out becomes rightly hers no matter how big the note is.

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𝐓𝐎 𝐌𝐀𝐊𝐄 𝐀 𝐖𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐈𝐒 𝐀 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒 𝐁𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 😄😀😃😜🌹 Send this to everyone on your list. Make a happy home. Wishing you all a 𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐏𝐘 𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐘.

THE ROLE OF DOCTRINES AND RELIGIONS

      Most churches don't agree with others when it comes to matters concerning doctrines.Every church claims it's doctrine is the best known by God and also Every church has its own doctrines different from any other.  According to these churches, the doctrines adapted are associated with the founding individual or individuals of that particular church ministry.

Example of a bad church Doctrine in Kenya.

       Let us take an example of a church in Kenya that has a very bad doctrines that led it's members die. This church ministry in Kenya was called Jesus celebration center and it's headquarters are in Costal province of Kenya kilifi county. This church startled recruiting people in Kenya to join their church services which were conducted in their main church in Mombasa kilifi. According to this church, they had special believes that they relied on which were far different from what other churches believe in. This is what  their Doctrine said.

1. When you join the church you start fasting everyday without ceasing.

2. Once you join the church you don't go back home instead you bring those who remained at home you fast all.

3. You are supposed to pray until you see God.

4. Those who die quickly due to prolonged fasting are buried within the church compound.

If you threaten to stop fasting and abandon the ministry you are subjected to tough measures by those employed to deal with duch cases.

        So this church continued to operate in Kenya for more than two years until it was later discovered and the owners were arrested and taken to court to face charges and later jailed. Before it was discovered, many kenyans including, men, women, and children lost their lives there and were burried inside the church compound.We can see that all this happened because of a bad church doctrine. Such churches should not be allowed.

  

       According to theological and Biblical teachings, the right and correct doctrine that ought to be adopted by churches is the doctrine of Jesus Christ. The doctrine of Jesus Christ, has the power to unite people, bring love amongst believers, and to ensure that there is good relationships between different churches, and ministries.

          Jesus Christ should be the role model of our contemporary society. Jesus Christ demonstrated everything concerning, life.

(1)how to pray and warship, 

(2)how to live with people, 

(3).how to treat others during times of mistakes, (4)how to live holy life, 

(5)How to live for God as a servant and a leader.

(6)How to teach children what God wants them be

(7) The finally Jesus left to heaven and promised.     his disciples a helper who is the holy spirit. 

For those who get the holy spirit that was promised by Jesus Christ, he or she should bear these things listed below as the products of the holy spirit. And this is the reason why God send the holy spirit to be with the disciples to lead and control them in all the activities they undertook. 

(a)Love

(b)Joy

(c)Peace

(d) Patience

(e)Kindness

(f) Goodness

(g) Faithfulness

(h)Gentleness

(I)Self-Control

For those who are brethren in Christ, here is a home work we ought to do in order to attain this HOLY SPIRIT a helper from God.Remember minus the helper we can't afford to do or walk in the ways of God on our own. 

MARRIAGE AND ITS CHALLENGES

       It should be remembered that, marriage is an institution where children are brought up, taken care of and provided for, for all their basic needs and wants. Serious parents will always be responsible for delivering all this. It's always the   of duty of all parents to deliver these as a team. But most women  believe that it is a father's responsibility. 

       Yes it can be so but if we rely our minds on such weak point, problems may occur during the time the husband's job determined. When a woman try to keep her pace in helping the husband to provide for the family, things work well and any the husbands job may be missing, the woman's effort will hold and sustain the family as the husband looks for another job. To many who have good understanding, they will support this this issues that providing for the family, is a sharable issue among the spouse, which is supposed to be done with lots of understanding and dedication,  and in a Godly manner.

        For every marriage and entire family to be successful, there must be Godly principles governing in it. Minus Godly love in a marriage, things cannot work. When things don't work, the whole situation becomes a challenge the rest of the family members i.e  children. Such great challenge ends up breaking the whole marriage relationship and the spouse may seperate. This seperation puts children on a desperate bay and develops parents into a single parenthood family.  In Kenya, many broken family institutions are developing into single parent family  to. According to God's word, Single parent family is not the best way of life as God instituted it to be. As Christians we ought to live according to the word and principles of God and not according to our own ways. 

         Now days there are so many families that are evolving and adapting single parenthood lifestyle. Many ladies are abandoning their marriages and jumping into single parenthood lifestyle. We need to, come back to our senses and discover the will of God about the kind of life we are supposed to live after our marriages. Let us follow the guidelines given to us in the holy scriptures, and in all other books given by other religions that care about family and domestic affairs in marriage institutions.

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HEALING THE BROKEN MARRIAGES:

HEALING BROKEN MARRIAGES:

        Every problem always has a solution and a solution of a problem is always within the problem itself. 

      We have always talked very much about the breaking up of marriage institutions and how victims become single parents. This should not be so, because it's not within the rules of the Bible. In the book of Matthew chapter 19:4-6 says the bible says----

         This verse from the book of Matthew, 19:4-6 helps us to understand what message God is telling use through Jesus Christ about man and woman. There is no verse in the bible which conditions us to live single parent life. Another quote of verses that support this are here:

            As you can see from the above illustration, Several verses are how men and women should live for instance, in the book of Genesis chapter 2:24 says that " a man leaves his father and mother, and is united to his wife and they become one flesh." Becoming one flesh when interpreted means, that they form one body which cannot be separated. Example;

If this statement is false, then who can for instance, separate some parts of their body and continue to survive? Like you remove your head and you continue living like normal? Surely it's not possible. 

      So when God says a man should leave his father and mother to be joined to his wife to become one body, it  implies that even before this man is joined to his wife to start a marriage, it still existed because he is coming from the marriage of his father and mother. The same happened to his father who was joined to his mother to start a marriage from their parents too. So if we follow this chain backwards, it shows with strong evidence that marriage was there even before.

       The verses from the book of Ephesians chapter 5:34, 5:25 and 5:22 all give instructions of how the two Man and Woman who are joined together should live.

 In Ephesians 5:25 Husbands are hold to love their wives just as Christ loved the church. Christ loved the church unconditionally and this how all men who have already been joined to their wives should love them.

         In Ephesians 5:22 Wives are asked by God to submit themselves to their husbands. ( the key word here is submit  ) Submit is like to surrender or to give fully without regret. 

         In Ephesians chapter 5:33, both of them, men and women and asked by God through Jesus Christ that, men should love their wives as they love themselves. And wives should respect their husbands. 

        This rules are as simples as you see them. But they carry the secrets of any successful marriage. For those who don't practice this simple rules in their marriages, they always have drama in their marriages of fighting, Insulting one another, lacking respect for one another etc. So my appeal is for those who are already separated, my God help you to do  and come back together to continue with your life. Children feel secure when they are in the hands of both parents.

      May God Bless you all.