LOYALITY AND SUBMISSIVE, WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE?

 

The distinction between loyalty and submission in marriage:

LOYALITY

1. Commitment to the relationship

2. Faithfulness and dedication

3. Standing by one's partner

4. Supporting each other's goals

5. Unwavering allegiance

SUBMISSION 

1. Yielding to one's partner's leadership

2. Respectful deference

3. Cooperation and teamwork

4. Recognizing each other's authority

5. Mutual surrender

Key Differences:

1. Loyalty focuses on commitment; submission emphasizes cooperation.

2. Loyalty is about standing by; submission is about yielding.

3. Loyalty prioritizes faithfulness; submission prioritizes respect.

Biblical Perspective

1. Mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21)

2. Wives submit to husbands (Ephesians 5:22-24)

3. Husbands love and sacrifice (Ephesians 5:25-33)

4. Submission to God's authority (James 4:7)

Healthy Loyalty

1. Supports partner's growth

2. Encourages independence

3. Fosters open communication

4. Respects boundaries

5. Prioritizes mutual benefit

_Healthy Submission:_

1. Recognizes partner's strengths

2. Values teamwork and cooperation

3. Respects each other's authority

4. Encourages mutual accountability

5. Prioritizes unity and harmony

Unhealthy Loyalty

1. Enables harmful behavior

2. Ignores personal boundaries

3. Suppresses individuality

4. Fosters codependency

5. Prioritizes partner's needs over own well-being

Unhealthy Submission

1. Enables abuse or control

2. Ignores personal autonomy

3. Suppresses communication

4. Fosters resentment

5. Prioritizes partner's desires over own needs

Remember

1. Loyalty and submission are distinct.

2. Healthy loyalty prioritizes mutual growth.

3. Healthy submission values teamwork.

4. Unhealthy loyalty enables harm.

5. Unhealthy submission ignores autonomy.

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CHEATING IN A MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP IS SO DANGEROUS.

 

A CHEATING WOMAN IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN POISON. How?

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). 

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. 

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands death.  She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband.That is the main reason why it is too dangerous for a woman to cheat in the relationship.

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THE POWER OF FAITH, CONFIDENCE, AND DETERMINATION

 

Dear friends 

children of God who are justified by the blood of Jesus Christ, let's always remember these things.

We are:-

-Stronger than we think.

-Braver than we feel.

-Smarter than we know.

-These are super natural qualities God has given us   to triumph over the principalities of the devel 

We should always remember that:-

-Our uniqueness is our superpower.

-Our voice matters, and we can advise ourselves more better than others can do.

Let's speak kindly to ourselves that, 

our journey on this earth is distinct, compared to that of people who have chosen to walk in sinful nature.

-We should always remember that when doubts creep in, we should take  a breath, Pause, and Refocus back.

Recall our triumphs, no matter how small.

Remind ourselves that "with Jesus we've got things right.

Jesus Christ helps us to overcome these:

Tough days and nights.

Self-doubt and fear.

Challenges that always seem to be  insurmountable.

Lets Keep pushing forward:

Celebrating every tiny victories.

Embracing growth, learning from our mistakes and that of other people.

We ought to know that progress, not perfection, is our utmost goal.

We all deserve the following.

- Love, 

-Care,

- Compassion. 

-Forgiveness,

- New beginnings. 

-Happiness, 

-Laughter, and 

-Adventure.

Trust yourself that

You are enough."

You can trust myself."

And you can make it.

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HOW TO AVOID AFFAIRS THAT COME AS A RESULT OF UNNECESSARY EMOTIONS.

 

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage. 

No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

(1). Don't be too friendly with the opposite sex. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite sex as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries.Be disciplined. Be cordial.Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

(2). Don't share your personal problems with an opposite sex friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

(3). Don't contact any opposite sex you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

(4). Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite sex.

(5). Don't tell an opposite sex you are romantic or sexy, that private information is for your spouse only.

(6). Avoid discussions with the opposite sex when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things.Talk to your husband/wife instead.

(7). Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite sex.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite sex, for what?

(9). Work on your marriage.Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

(10). Protect your family.Don't share your marital problem with your opposite sex friend, it will bond you.

(11). Never flirt with the opposite sex.

12). Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as sexy.

(13).If possible and if there is no proper reasons, do not contact your EX after marriage your new marriage.

 (14). Don't chat with the opposite sex beyond what you can imagine.

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THE IMPORTENCE OF BREASTFEEDING:

     Breast feeding is very important to every child below two years. All mothers should allow their children to breastfeed for at least six months of their life. This is the recommendation of world health organization.

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The American Academy of Pediatrics and the World Health Organization recommend that babies be exclusively breastfed for the first six months of their lives. After that, they recommend continuing to breastfeed while also introducing complementary foods for up to two years or longer. 

 

Breastfeeding has many health benefits for infants, children, and mothers. Some studies have found that longer breastfeeding duration is associated with a lower risk of all-cause mortality, cardiovascular disease, and cancer. Other studies have found that breastfeeding duration is associated with a healthier diet for children, including more fruit and vegetables. 

 

The decision of when to stop breastfeeding is up to you and your baby. Some babies may decrease the number of times they breastfeed as they start eating solid foods. Around nine months, babies may start to rely more on solid foods for their growth and development. 

 

CDC

Facts | Breastfeeding - CDC

The American Academy of Pediatrics and the World Health Organization also recommend exclusive breastfeeding for about the first 6 months with continued breastfeeding.

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