HEALING THE BROKEN MARRIAGES:

HEALING BROKEN MARRIAGES:

        Every problem always has a solution and a solution of a problem is always within the problem itself. 

      We have always talked very much about the breaking up of marriage institutions and how victims become single parents. This should not be so, because it's not within the rules of the Bible. In the book of Matthew chapter 19:4-6 says the bible says----

         This verse from the book of Matthew, 19:4-6 helps us to understand what message God is telling use through Jesus Christ about man and woman. There is no verse in the bible which conditions us to live single parent life. Another quote of verses that support this are here:

            As you can see from the above illustration, Several verses are how men and women should live for instance, in the book of Genesis chapter 2:24 says that " a man leaves his father and mother, and is united to his wife and they become one flesh." Becoming one flesh when interpreted means, that they form one body which cannot be separated. Example;

If this statement is false, then who can for instance, separate some parts of their body and continue to survive? Like you remove your head and you continue living like normal? Surely it's not possible. 

      So when God says a man should leave his father and mother to be joined to his wife to become one body, it  implies that even before this man is joined to his wife to start a marriage, it still existed because he is coming from the marriage of his father and mother. The same happened to his father who was joined to his mother to start a marriage from their parents too. So if we follow this chain backwards, it shows with strong evidence that marriage was there even before.

       The verses from the book of Ephesians chapter 5:34, 5:25 and 5:22 all give instructions of how the two Man and Woman who are joined together should live.

 In Ephesians 5:25 Husbands are hold to love their wives just as Christ loved the church. Christ loved the church unconditionally and this how all men who have already been joined to their wives should love them.

         In Ephesians 5:22 Wives are asked by God to submit themselves to their husbands. ( the key word here is submit  ) Submit is like to surrender or to give fully without regret. 

         In Ephesians chapter 5:33, both of them, men and women and asked by God through Jesus Christ that, men should love their wives as they love themselves. And wives should respect their husbands. 

        This rules are as simples as you see them. But they carry the secrets of any successful marriage. For those who don't practice this simple rules in their marriages, they always have drama in their marriages of fighting, Insulting one another, lacking respect for one another etc. So my appeal is for those who are already separated, my God help you to do  and come back together to continue with your life. Children feel secure when they are in the hands of both parents.

      May God Bless you all.

THE BEST RELATIONSHIP WE CAN EVER MAKE IS THAT ONE WITH JESUS CHRIST:

           Congratulations to all who are celebrating their birthday's today. May God bless you and deliver the desire of your hearts in your hands in Jesus mighty name. Jesus Christ came to redeem us from sins that could lead us to perishing. The plan of the devil is to take control of our lives ruin it completely and render us hopeless then make us die spiritually and in flesh. Satan comes to us in various ways which are attractive and convincive to our eyes. Satan always target us. When he wins the target, we become his hostages fallen into his traps.So inside his traps we suffer and fulfill what pleases Satan only not remembering we have forsaken God. At this point the devil uses our energy for his benefit and advantage.

          When we accept Jesus Christ in our lives through salvation, we become in close connection and relationship with Him. While in this relationship, Jesus through the Holy spirit of God, takes control over our lives. While in this relationship, the chances of Satan winning our lives becomes, limited because the ways of God are quite different from the ways of Satan. God wants us for example, to walk upright, speak the truth all the time, go to church, and christian fellowships, read the bible, help those in need and don't do revenge to those who wronged us. Respect others, stay well with our neighbors, etc. The list here is also endless.

        But on the side of Satan, he would like us always to do things that pleases him and are irrelevant to God's word. Eg among others, Stealing, Speaking lies, beaing ignorant, drunkardnedness, practice prostitution, lack respect to others, fight back to others, Kill, Steal, Manipulate, be self centered etc. The list is endless. So we must make a relationship with Jesus Christ in order to avoid all this and defeat the devil... Let us be meack if desiring to know more about Jesus Christ and what God expects out of us. We should always be vigilant and keep the call. We should always be eager to participate in the great commission fulfillment as it was commissioned by Jesus Christ himself to his disciples then to us. 

         Be blessed brethren.

THIS IS HOW YOUR ENEMIES BEHAVE.

In the world we are living in, we have friends and enemies. Among our friends, we have true friends and fake ones or those who pretend to be true friends. The following detailed explanations explain how they behave. Let's follow and see.

𝟭𝟮 𝗦𝗜𝗚𝗡𝗦 𝗢𝗙 𝗨𝗡𝗙𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗟𝗬 𝗙𝗥𝗜𝗘𝗡𝗗𝗦

Life is full of unfriendly friends.

Some people didn't die when the arrow was in their chest, they died when they saw who threw the  arrow. 

Here are 12 Signs of Unfriendly friends;

1. Unfriendly friends plot against you at night and laugh with you in the morning. They smile a lot and act nice to you, but really, they are talking and gossiping behind your back.

2. They appear when they need you and disappear when you need them the most. They are very selfish and self-centered.

3. Your Success threatens them. They get upset when something good happens to you. They are highly covetous.

4. They blackmail you emotional. Takes advantage of you. Cause you pain, hurt you and deceive you.

5. They always try to compete with you and make you feel they are better than you.

6. Unfriendly friends always criticize you negatively. They constantly point out all the negative things about your Life. They don't see anything good about you.

7. They discredit you and doubt everything you say or do. They hold you in low esteem and spread lies about you. They lack faith in you and belittle your achievements.

8. They are not consistent. You cannot depend or rely on them. They are not trustworthy.

9. Unfriendly friends don't feel bad or remorse when they hurt you. They never apologize rather they are judgmental; always feeling they are right.

10. They rejoice when something bad happens to you. Your pain gives them Joy.

11. Unfriendly friends will never patronize you even if you sell the secrets to Long Life and Prosperity, all because of envy and jealousy.

12. They are happy when you share your secrets with them, because, they are going to use it against you, to blackmail, hurt or betray you without your notice.

Sometimes, your problem is not a big issue; your actual Problem is the person you tell your problem.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked who can know it? -- Jeremiah 17:9.

Beware of Unfriendly friends

Jesus Christ Love you

By Thomas A. Omulumo

Blessings of God be upon you. 

THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE.

If your goal is marriage, stop looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend. Do not say you're looking for a relationship that will hopefully grow into marriage. The emphasis here is boyfriend, girlfriend, and relationship. The standard of admission for these is so far below marriage that you can waste your entire life in them and never see marriage.

Marriage is a very different game than mere love relationships. It requires a certain state of mind and degree of maturity. That's why the Bible says that whoever finds a wife finds a good thing. You find her being a wife before you even marry her. This means that she evolved herself into a wife before she got married.

By implication, you have to be a husband to find a wife because you can't relate with what you're not.

We always look out for what mirrors us. 

The reason many people's relationships never go far is because they are carrying the energy of a boyfriend or girlfriend themselves. They accept temporary status and give great importance to something as vaporous as a relationship. 

A person who is minded on marriage transforms themselves into a husband or wife first. This is how they employ their singleness season, not hoping from one fling or entanglement to another. 

When they finally step into the market, they're looking for a ready wife or husband too. That's why they can never date for years because they already did their preparations.

They also get married promptly because they have a reason to get married. Only in marriage will they unpack physical intimacy. Only in marriage will they find the companionship they need in order to soar.

These people have sensitivity to seasons, and, like the men of Issachar in the Bible, they have an understanding of the times and what they ought to do at every season. 

Did you know that to win in life, you don't need to be a freak of nature or a remarkable genius? All you need to do is to understand the times. 

Half of winning in life comprises simply in showing up. If y

THE WAY TO SUCCESS HAS MANY CHALLENGES AND FAILURES.

The way to success is Through many challenges and failures. 

But finally if you are determined, you must achieve your goals.

Steve Harvey said that over the past 33 years he has pitched more than 200 stories to Hollywood out of which only 5 were picked. And those 5 became HITS and made him a STAR. This means that he went through a lot of rejection yet did not get discouraged. This is the true meaning of 'Winners never quit'. 

Now imagine if he had given up after 20 or 30 tries, probably his first hit was the fiftieth. You’ll never reach your goal if you give up every time you fail. Rejection is just a sign that you still need to work on your craft to polish it up. 

 So instead of crying, ask yourself how you can improve and get to work. 

I wish you success in all that you are doing despite the challenges you are going through. You are in the right track and remember, those who succeeded, went through what you are going through now. It takes, Hard work, Petience, and persaverence.