MARRIAGE AT LARGE

MARRIAGE AND FAMILY.

        Most marriages are facing tough situations due to one reason or the other. Most people come in marriage expecting to see only good things. Just a few know that challenges always come and may sweep away good expectations a couple may have. From a survey, a couple who marry and start life when they are between 20-26 years, don't have power to withstand marriage challenges. A lady will always run to her parents for safety. And the boy will always remain for help from parents. Early marriages are not good and for the couple to be mature in order to marry and start building life. Life is build on understanding mind, Respect and Self determination and transparency between the couple. Unfaithfulness doesn't help at all. "Mpango ya Kando doesn't help." 

        Being jobless especially on the side of man is the biggest challenge in any family affair. A woman who's husband is jobless should try and find something good and positive about their life, that can bring income to do. They should not just sit and wait. Some job blessings do delay. Men should understand their women when they go out to look for some job to do.