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Sunday, July 26, 2026

CONSEQUENCES OF STARVING YOUR MAN SEXUALY.

CONSEQUENCES OF STARVING YOUR MAN SEX… ✍️

When a man feels sexually neglected in a relationship, it’s rarely just about the bedroom. It often reaches deeper into his emotions, his confidence, and how he connects with his partner.

Some men become irritable and short-tempered.

Some grow distant and withdrawn.

Others bury themselves in work, distractions, or silence.

Not because they only want sex — but because, for many men, intimacy is one of the primary ways they experience love, acceptance, and connection.

For a man, physical closeness is often tied to emotional reassurance. It tells him:

“I want you.”

“I choose you.”

“You matter to me.”

When that connection disappears for long periods without understanding or communication, he may begin to question himself — his attractiveness, his value, even his place in the relationship. Over time, that quiet rejection can chip away at his confidence and joy.

Society rarely gives men permission to express this vulnerability. They are told to be strong, to endure, to “man up.” So many suffer in silence, carrying frustration, loneliness, and confusion they don’t know how to communicate.

But here’s the truth many couples miss:

Intimacy is not a weapon.

It is not a bargaining tool.

It is not a favor.

It is a shared responsibility — a bridge that keeps two people emotionally connected.

When a woman nurtures intimacy with her partner, she’s not just meeting a physical need. She’s strengthening emotional security, deepening the bond, and reinforcing the partnership. And when a man feels desired and connected, he often responds with more affection, protection, generosity, and presence.

But the same is true in reverse — men must also create emotional safety, respect, and tenderness. Desire thrives where love feels safe.

Healthy relationships are built when both partners feel wanted, valued, and connected.

Neglect the connection, and distance grows.

Nurture the connection, and love expands.

Because intimacy, at its core, is not about sex.

It’s about feeling chosen.

AVOID MUSTURBATION BEFORE IT DESTROYS YOU.

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Masturbation is one of the things that is destroying this generation, and that is something we need to understand. The spirit of masturbation and the spirit of fornication often work together, and they are stubborn spirits that seek to keep a person in bondage.

The only way a man can truly break free is by completely surrendering himself to God. With men, it may look impossible, but with God, all things are possible. Freedom does not come by willpower alone; it comes through the power and grace of God.

You must learn to stay in the presence of God. Spend time in prayer. Spend time in His Word. Spend time in worship. The more room you give to the Holy Spirit, the less room there is for the works of the flesh.

You also need to understand that two spirits cannot rule the same life. When the Holy Spirit takes full control, every other spirit must give way. This is why you must create a daily routine that strengthens your relationship with God and keeps your heart focused on Him.

If you continue to feed the flesh, the struggle will remain. But if you feed your spirit, the power of sin begins to lose its grip on your life.

Child of God, if you are trapped in this cycle, do not justify it and do not make peace with it. Come before God in repentance. He is able to cleanse you, restore you, and give you victory.

Repent. Return to God. Surrender completely to Him, and let the Holy Spirit take His rightful place in your life.

patienceapostle@gmail.com INVADING THE LANDS WITH THE GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST.

Sunday, June 28, 2026

FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL.

FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL – The Stoic Path to Inner Peace

Much of your daily stress comes from worrying about things outside your control. The weather, traffic, other people's opinions, the economy, the past, the future—none of these answer to your wishes. Yet you spend enormous mental energy rehearsing, resenting, and resisting what you cannot change. This is not concern; it is self-torture.

The ancient Stoics understood a liberating truth: peace comes not from controlling events, but from controlling your response to events. You cannot control what happens to you, but you can always control how you interpret it, what you do about it, and what meaning you assign to it. That sphere of control is small, but it is the only arena where your effort matters.

To master this distinction:

First, draw a clear circle. On a piece of paper, draw two concentric circles. The inner circle is what you control: your thoughts, your choices, your words, your actions, your reactions. The outer circle is what you do not control: everything else. Whenever you feel anxious, ask: "Is this inside or outside my circle?" If outside, release it.

Second, practice radical acceptance of what is. "It is raining" is a fact. "This rain ruined my day" is a judgment. Acceptance does not mean approval—it means ceasing to fight reality. You cannot change what has already happened. You can only change what you do next.

Third, redirect energy from worry to action. Instead of worrying about whether you will get the job, focus on preparing for the interview. Instead of resenting someone's behavior, focus on how you will respond. Action absorbs the energy that worry wastes.

Fourth, use the "Stoic pause." When something upsetting happens, pause for three seconds before reacting. In that pause, ask: "Can I control this?" If no, let it pass. Your power lies in the pause.

Fifth, practice premeditation of adversity. Imagine worst-case scenarios that you fear. Then ask: "Even if that happens, can I handle it?" The answer is almost always yes. You have survived every difficult day so far. Fear shrinks when you look at it directly.

The revelation? Freedom is not getting what you want. Freedom is wanting only what you can control. When you stop demanding that the world conform to your preferences, you stop being a victim of the world. You become the author of your own experience.

Start today. The next time you feel frustration rising, ask: "Is this mine to control?" Let the answer set you free.

Friday, June 26, 2026

MY HUSBAND MARRIED ANOTHER WOMAN USING MY MONEY.

Welcome back and let's explore this wonderful story about what evil things men do to their wives. This is how the story goes.

My husband married another woman using my money, but when he came back from his “honeymoon,” he found out I had already sold the mansion where he planned to live with his mistress. They thought they could drain me for my fortune forever… until they returned from their secret wedding and discovered they no longer had a single key or a single cent to their names.

It was nearly eight at night, and I was still in my office in Polanco, exhausted after closing the biggest deal of the year. I worked nonstop to sustain the life my “family” loved so much… while my husband enjoyed it like he had been born entitled to every luxury I provided.

I picked up my phone and texted Mauricio Ríos, my husband, who was supposedly away on a “business trip” in Singapore.

“Take care. I miss you so much.”

No reply.

I opened Instagram just to clear my head.

And in less than a second… my whole world split open.

The first post on my feed was from my mother-in-law, Lidia Ríos.

It was a wedding photo.

And the man in the ivory suit, smiling in a way he had never smiled at me… was my husband. Standing beside him in white was Valeria Cruz, a junior employee from my own company.

Then I saw the caption.

“My son is finally truly happy with Valeria. He finally chose the right woman.”

I went cold.

When I zoomed in, I saw all of them. His sisters. His cousins. His uncles. Every single person smiling for the camera. They all knew. They had all helped hide it.

While I was paying the mortgage on our mansion in Bosques de las Lomas, covering Mauricio’s sports car, and wiring monthly money to his mother… they were celebrating my humiliation.

I called Lidia, praying it was some sick joke.

It wasn’t.

“Sofía, accept reality,” she said. “You couldn’t give my son children. Valeria is pregnant. She is a real woman. Don’t stand in their way.”

Something inside me broke.

Not into tears.

Into clarity.

They thought I was weak. They thought I would keep financing betrayal because I was too afraid to be alone. They thought they could use my money and still laugh at me behind my back.

They forgot one very important detail.

Everything was in my name.

The mansion.

The cars.

The investments.

The accounts.

That same night, I checked into a five-star hotel and called my lawyer.

“Sell the house in Bosques today,” I said. “I don’t care what price gets it done. I want the money moved into my personal account by tomorrow.”

Then I gave three more orders.

Freeze every shared account.

Cancel every card Mauricio carried.

Remove every access point he had to anything I owned.

Three days later, Mauricio and Valeria returned to Mexico City.

No money.

No cards.

No plan.

They stepped out of a taxi in front of the mansion, expecting to find me waiting there like a fool ready to forgive.

Mauricio tried the gate.

His key didn’t work.

A guard he had never seen before walked up and said calmly, “Sir, this property was sold yesterday by its legal owner, Mrs. Sofía Aguilar. You no longer live here.”

Valeria dropped her suitcase.

Mauricio just stood there.

And I watched the entire thing from my phone through the security cameras… smiling for the first time in days.

Because that was not the end.

That was only the first part of the wedding gift I prepared for them, and if you want to know what happened next, go to the comments because what I did after that made them wish they had never come back…

(I know you're all very curious about the next part, so if you want to read more, please leave a "YES" comment below!)

ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS ADVICE.

MY FATHER'S ADVICE SAVED MY LIFE.

1. Not everything will go as you expect in your life. This is why you need to drop expectations and go with the flow.

2.Reduce bitterness from your life, that shit delays blessings!

3. Dating a supportive woman is everything.

4. If you want to be successful, you must respect one rule - Never lie to yourself.

5. If your parents always count on you, don't play the same game with those who count on their parents.

6. Chase goals, not people.

7. Your 20's are your selfish years, build yourself, choose yourself first at all cost.

8. Detachment is power. Release anything that doesn't bring you peace.

9. Only speak when your words are more beautiful than your silence.

10. Invest in your looks. Do it for no one else but yourself. When you look good, you feel good. Normalize dressing well, you're broke not mad.

11. Some people want to see everything go wrong for you because nothing is going right for them.

12. Being a good person doesn't get you loved. It gets you used.

13. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid of losing yourself by trying to please everyone around you.

14. Keep your move private. Don't announce it until it's SEALED! Premature announcements attract bad spirits. Best thing you can do is stop telling people what's going on in your life.

15. For the sake of your mental health don't love too hard, therapy sessions are expensive. Also, marry when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

16. Your thoughts are very powerful, make them positive.

17. Social media will make you envy someone you should actually pity.

18. Nobody owes you anything on your birthday, learn to save money and spoil yourself.

19. That move you're scared to make might just be the one that changes everything. Do it. Move.

20. Dont mess up your progress trying to rush the process.

21. No matter how thirsty you are, there are some people you should never ask for water.

22. Add value to your life, learn a skill, develop yourself.

23. Never love someone to the point where you no longer mind them hurting you.

24. You are your own best friend. Never ever, put yourself down.

25. Sometimes people come back in your life just to check if you're still stupid.

26. The sooner you figure out which chairs don't belong at your table, the more peaceful your meals become.

27. If you want to run, first you must learn to walk. Yes, the dreams are big, but you have to start somewhere, and doing something is better than nothing at all. Start small, stay consistent and watch it get bigger.

28. Before spending money on someone else, make sure your family is good.

29. What comes easy, won't last. What lasts, won't come easy.

30. Normalize lying to people who ask you lots of questions about your personal life.

31. One day you'll test HIV positive because of forgiving cheating partners.

32. Some Ex's need to understand that even if we hear they now drive a plane or own the world, we will never regret leaving them.

33. Avoid peer pressure.

34. Do not abuse and kill women. Respect yourself.

35. Not everyone at your work place is your friend.

~ Do your job.

~ Get paid.

~ Go home.

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