Every problem always has a solution and a solution of a problem is always within the problem itself.
We have always talked very much about the breaking up of marriage institutions and how victims become single parents. This should not be so, because it's not within the rules of the Bible. In the book of Matthew chapter 19:4-6 says the bible says----
This verse from the book of Matthew, 19:4-6 helps us to understand what message God is telling use through Jesus Christ about man and woman. There is no verse in the bible which conditions us to live single parent life. Another quote of verses that support this are here:
As you can see from the above illustration, Several verses are how men and women should live for instance, in the book of Genesis chapter 2:24 says that " a man leaves his father and mother, and is united to his wife and they become one flesh." Becoming one flesh when interpreted means, that they form one body which cannot be separated. Example;If this statement is false, then who can for instance, separate some parts of their body and continue to survive? Like you remove your head and you continue living like normal? Surely it's not possible.
So when God says a man should leave his father and mother to be joined to his wife to become one body, it implies that even before this man is joined to his wife to start a marriage, it still existed because he is coming from the marriage of his father and mother. The same happened to his father who was joined to his mother to start a marriage from their parents too. So if we follow this chain backwards, it shows with strong evidence that marriage was there even before.
The verses from the book of Ephesians chapter 5:34, 5:25 and 5:22 all give instructions of how the two Man and Woman who are joined together should live.
In Ephesians 5:25 Husbands are hold to love their wives just as Christ loved the church. Christ loved the church unconditionally and this how all men who have already been joined to their wives should love them.
In Ephesians 5:22 Wives are asked by God to submit themselves to their husbands. ( the key word here is submit ) Submit is like to surrender or to give fully without regret.
In Ephesians chapter 5:33, both of them, men and women and asked by God through Jesus Christ that, men should love their wives as they love themselves. And wives should respect their husbands.
This rules are as simples as you see them. But they carry the secrets of any successful marriage. For those who don't practice this simple rules in their marriages, they always have drama in their marriages of fighting, Insulting one another, lacking respect for one another etc. So my appeal is for those who are already separated, my God help you to do and come back together to continue with your life. Children feel secure when they are in the hands of both parents.
May God Bless you all.
