8 MISTAKES MEN SHOULD NOT DO WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN.

8 MISTAKES MEN SHOULD NEVER MAKE WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN

Listen up, men. The modern dating market is a battlefield — and most of you are walking into it blind. You confuse attention for interest and kindness for attraction. Then you wonder why you keep losing. The truth? The game has rules. Learn them or perish.

Here are 8 brutal mistakes you should NEVER make when it comes to women:

1️⃣ NEVER EAT A WOMAN’S PY.*

A man who does this is giving away his power. You think it’s intimacy — she sees submission. A woman should be the one showing her desire for you, not the other way around. Don’t worship her body; make her earn yours. The moment you start bowing for pleasure, you stop leading as a man.

2️⃣ NEVER SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN’S WIFE.

That’s not bravery — it’s stupidity. You’re signing your own death warrant for a temporary thrill. You risk your peace, your safety, your name, and maybe your life — for someone else’s property. There are countless women out there; don’t destroy your life chasing forbidden fruit. Be disciplined.

3️⃣ NEVER PROPOSE ON YOUR KNEES.

You kneel to God and your parents — not to a woman. Love doesn’t require submission. Stand tall. Propose with confidence, not desperation. A real man doesn’t beg for a “yes” — he offers partnership. If she needs a performance to say yes, she’s not the one.

4️⃣ NEVER CHASE HER — ATTRACT HER.

The more you chase, the less she values you. Desperation kills attraction faster than anything else. Focus on your mission, your fitness, your money, your peace. Build a life that commands respect — not one that depends on female validation. When you’re the prize, she’ll pursue you.

5️⃣ NEVER ASSUME A WOMAN CAN’T DESTROY YOU.

Ask Samson. Ask Adam. The wrong woman can bring down the strongest man. One wrong attachment can cost you your empire, your focus, and your future. Don’t underestimate emotional manipulation — it’s more dangerous than any bullet. Stay alert.

6️⃣ NEVER LEAD WITH YOUR WALLET.

When money is your strategy, you’ll only attract parasites. If you buy her attention, you’ll have to keep paying to keep her. Real women are drawn to purpose, not pockets. Don’t use your money to buy love; use your ambition to build legacy.

7️⃣ NEVER CONFUSE ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION.

Just because she laughs at your jokes or texts you daily doesn’t mean she wants you. Women know how to use attention as bait — especially when they see you starving for validation. Learn to read energy, not emojis.

8️⃣ NEVER PUT WOMEN ABOVE YOUR PURPOSE.

The moment you prioritize her over your mission, you lose both. Your purpose is your backbone — lose it, and you’ll crawl through life. Build yourself, master yourself, and watch women align naturally with your power.

FINAL WARNING:

Weak men chase pleasure; strong men chase purpose. Every mistake listed above costs you power, peace, or progress. Stay sharp. Stay focused. Women respect men who respect themselves first. Don’t trade your crown for temporary comfort.

WHAT HUGGING AND KISSING DO TO PEOPLE.

THE HIDDEN SPIRITUAL DANGER OF SEX, HUGGING & KISSING — MEN, READ THIS CAREFULLY

Listen up, men.

This generation treats intimacy like a game, but what you don’t realize is — every physical act between a man and a woman opens a spiritual door. You think it’s just pleasure, but it’s deeper than that. Every time you touch, kiss, or lay with a woman, something in you connects, transfers, and transforms — for better or worse.

Let’s break it down:

1. HUGGING 🫂 — HEART TO HEART CONNECTION

When you hug a woman heart to heart, body to body — your spirits meet.

That’s why a simple hug can calm your soul or destroy your peace.

You can hug yourself into comfort or chaos depending on who you’re hugging.

Not every embrace is innocent. Some carry energy that drains you long after you let go.

CHECK WELL.

2. KISSING 💋 — MOUTH TO MOUTH EXCHANGE OF ENERGY

When you kiss, you’re not just sharing lips — you’re exchanging breath, spirit, and vibration.

Couples who kiss often begin to think alike, act alike, even look alike.

That’s spiritual chemistry.

But remember — you can also kiss yourself into confusion, depression, and loss.

Not every kiss is passion. Some are poison.

CHECK WELL.

3. SEX  — SOUL TO SOUL TRANSFER

When you have sex with someone, your spirits merge.

It’s not just physical — it’s spiritual, emotional, mental, and energetic.

You bond with their soul, their demons, their curses, their pasts, and their pain.

If she carries darkness, you inherit part of it.

If she carries blessings, you tap into it.

That’s why soul ties are real — they can either lift you or destroy you.

Now listen carefully, brother.

Before you fall in love, ask God for direction.

Before you imagine kissing someone, think twice.

Before lust pushes you toward random women, remember — salt and sugar look alike.

What looks sweet can ruin your entire life.

That “beautiful night out” could be your spiritual downfall.

That “casual fling” could open doors of bondage that will take years to close.

Discipline isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom.

Control your urges. Protect your seed.

Your manhood is not public property — it’s private property.

Not every woman deserves access to your spirit.

A real man doesn’t move with lust — he moves with purpose.

Zip up. Focus. Build. Lead.

Because what you join your body to — you join your destiny to.

FINAL WARNING:

One wrong woman can delay your progress for years.

One wrong soul tie can chain your spirit.

Be intentional about who you touch, love, or lay with.

Because pleasure fades — but the consequences remain.

THE DEATH OF FESTUS FRED AMINO.

Today, with heavy hearts we mourn a dear friend, a brother, and a companion on life’s journey, Festus Amimo. His passing has left a deep pain in our hearts, a silence that words struggle to fill.

Festus was more than just a friend.

He was a man of kindness, humility, and unwavering loyalty. He had a way of making those around him feel valued, heard, and supported. Whether through his laughter, his counsel, or his quiet presence, Festus touched the lives of many in ways that will never be forgotten.

It is difficult to accept that someone so full of life, so generous in spirit, has left us so suddenly. But even in our sorrow, we give thanks for the time God allowed us to share with him. We thank God for his friendship, his courage, and the love he freely gave.

MEET KENYA'S EARLY LEADERS.

ERIC EDWARD KHASAKHALA: THE LOYALIST WHO NEVER ROSE 

Eric Edward Khasakhala’s political life reads less like a triumphalist independence story and more like a quiet indictment of how power actually works in Kenya. He was present at the creation of the republic, sat in the rooms where the future was negotiated, and helped assemble the machinery of the postcolonial state. Yet when authority was finally distributed, he remained permanently adjacent to it—useful, visible, but never decisive.

He entered politics from education, not agitation. Where many of his contemporaries rose through confrontation and theatrical defiance, Khasakhala came armed with administration, discipline, and belief in institutions. He believed that independence would be secured not merely by removing colonial rulers but by building systems that could outlive personalities. That belief shaped his career and ultimately limited it. Kenya’s early political order did not reward builders; it rewarded consolidators.

As a senior KADU figure, Khasakhala backed federalism at a time when the momentum of history was moving in the opposite direction. The postcolonial elite wanted a strong center, not empowered regions. When KADU collapsed into KANU, Khasakhala crossed over, but the suspicion never lifted. Federalists were tolerated as a gesture of national unity, not embraced as equals. He survived politically, but survival came at the cost of influence.

His tenure in education revealed both his strengths and his fatal misreading of Kenyan politics. As Assistant Minister for Education, he pursued the unglamorous work of restructuring early education and expanding local capacity. While others courted donors and scholarships abroad, he focused on schools at home. It was sound policy but poor spectacle. In a political culture that rewarded visibility over durability, his achievements were too quiet to protect him.

For all his conciliatory instincts, Khasakhala was unyielding when it came to land and identity. His defense of Bunyore interests, particularly during the Maseno debates, exposed the limits of post-independence unity. Parliament was civil on the surface, but beneath it lay unresolved colonial boundaries and ethnic competition. When Khasakhala refused to retreat, he crossed an invisible line. The system can forgive ambition; it rarely forgives defiance without numbers.

His greatest political loyalty became his greatest vulnerability. His close association with Tom Mboya placed him on the wrong side of power after Mboya’s assassination. In a period defined by fear and consolidation, neutrality was impossible. Khasakhala did not renounce friendships or rewrite his past to please the regime. He attended the funeral. He remained visible. He was quietly marked. From then on, advancement ended. He would serve, but he would not rise.

The 1969 electoral defeat was less a personal failure than a warning shot. It demonstrated that seniority offered no protection in a system increasingly hostile to independent political bases. Courts provided no remedy, and the lesson was unmistakable: legitimacy now flowed from the center, not the electorate. Though he later returned to Parliament, the rules had changed. By the time of the mlolongo elections, his fate was administrative rather than democratic.

Under Moi, Khasakhala was managed with courtesy and containment. Assistant ministerial roles, cultural leadership, ceremonial respect—enough to honor his history, never enough to empower his future. Others with sharper elbows and looser loyalties rose past him. He remained faithful, even when faith brought no reward.

In the end, Khasakhala’s career exposes a hard truth about Kenyan politics: integrity may earn admiration, but it rarely earns power. He was too principled to conspire, too loyal to defect, too restrained to dominate. He believed politics could be ethical in a system built on calculation.

In death, the nation gathered to praise what it had sidelined in life. Unity was proclaimed, virtues celebrated, loyalty honored. But the applause came too late to alter the verdict of his career. Eric Edward Khasakhala did not fail in politics. Politics failed to find use for a man like him.

HOW TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE IN MARRIAGE.

MEN, READ THIS BEFORE YOU DESTROY YOUR OWN HOME

Too many husbands lose their wives’ respect not because they cheat, but because they don’t know how to correct her without breaking her spirit.

You think you’re “leading,” but you’re actually crushing the very heart that’s supposed to support you.

You think shouting makes you a man — it makes you insecure.

You think comparing her to other women will motivate her — it will make her resent you.

Listen, brother…

If you want a wife who respects you, admires you, and stands by you for life, you must correct her like a king — not condemn her like an enemy.

A real man can lead his home without wounding his woman.

Here’s how:

1. LOWER YOUR VOICE

She’s your wife, not your child. Speak with authority, not aggression. Calm words carry more weight than loud ones.

2. DO IT IN LOVE

Correction without love becomes condemnation. When you speak from love, she’ll hear your heart, not your anger.

3. STOP CRITICIZING

Criticism kills connection. Correction builds growth. Offer solutions, not insults.

4. PRAISE HER FOR WHAT IS RIGHT

If you only correct and never appreciate, you’ll drain her spirit. Praise her effort, not just results.

5. NEVER DO IT BEFORE YOUR CHILDREN

A king doesn’t embarrass his queen in front of the kingdom. Correct her privately, honor her publicly.

6. NEVER DO IT IN PUBLIC

You destroy her confidence when you shame her in front of others. Real men protect their wives’ image, even in conflict.

7. DON’T CORRECT IN ANGER

When you’re angry, stay silent. Words from fury wound deeper than fists. Speak only when peace has returned.

8. DON’T COMPARE HER

Comparison kills contentment. She’s your wife, not a copy of someone else’s. Appreciate her individuality.

9. LEAVE THE PAST WHERE IT BELONGS

Don’t weaponize old mistakes. Handle today’s issue today. Mature men move forward.

10. NEVER ATTACK HER WOMANHOOD

Insults like “and you call yourself a woman?” are poison. You can’t build a queen by breaking her crown.

11. NEVER ATTACK HER DIGNITY

Belittling her intelligence or worth makes you a tyrant, not a leader. Gentlemen correct with grace.

12. CHOOSE THE RIGHT TIME

Correction in the heat of anger only fuels the fire. Wait for calm — that’s when wisdom works.

13. LEAD BY EXAMPLE

You can’t demand excellence while doing nothing. Help her, support her, and she’ll follow your lead naturally.

FINAL NOTE

If you want your wife to be an angel in your life, create a heaven for her to live in. A real man doesn’t dominate — he builds, protects, and leads with love.

AN AMAZING STORY OF A CLIENT IN A HOTEL.

A handsome man went into a hotel and asked to see the boss. When the boss came, the story began.

 

-The client: is room 39 empty?

-The boss: yes, sir.

-The client: can I book it?

-The boss: of course you can.

-The client: thank you.

Before going to the room, the client asked the boss to provide him with a black knife, a white thread 39 cm and an orange 73g.

The boss agreed though he was surprized at the weird things the client asked to have.

The client went into his room, he didn't ask for food or anything else.

Unfortunately for the boss, his room was next to room 39.

After midnight, the boss heard strange voices and noise in that client's room. Voices of wild animals and of utensils and dishes being thrown on the floor.

The boss didn't sleep that night. He kept thinking and wondering what might be the source of the noise.

In the morning, when the client handed the keys to the boss, the latter asked to see the room first.

He went to the room and found everything alright. Nothing unusual. He even found the thread, the black knife and the orange on the table.

The client paid the bill and gave the bellboys a very good tip and left the hotel smiling.

The boss was in a shock but he didn't reveal what he heard to the bellboys. In fact, he started to doubt himself.

After one year, the client showed up again. He asked to see the boss again. The boss was in a puzzle.

The client asked the same things: room 39, black knife, white thread 39cm and an orange 79g.

This time, the boss wanted to know the truth by all means possible. He spent a sleepless night, waiting for something to happen. After midnight, the same voices and noises started, this time louder and more indecipherable than the year before.

Again, before leaving, the client paid his bill and left a large tip on the table for the bellboys. The smile didn't leave his face.

The boss started searching for the meaning of everything the client asked to have. Why did he ask room 39? why the white thread? why the black knife??? In fact, the boss didn't arrive to any convincing answer to all these questions.

The boss now was eagerly waiting for the month of March, the month in which the client showed up. 

To his surprise, on the first day of March, the same client showed up. He asked the same questions. Wanted to book the same room, wanted to have the same things as before.

The boss again heard the same noises, this time more louder than before.

In the morning, when the client was leaving the hotel, the boss apologized politely to the client and asked to know the secret behind the noises in the room.

-''If I tell you the secret, do you promise to never reveal it to anyone else?''

-''I promise I will never let anyone know''.

-''Swear''

-''I swear I won't reveal your secret''

So finally, the client revealed his secret to the boss. 

Unfortunately, the boss was a sincere person. Until now he hasn't revealed his secret to anyone.

When he does, I will let you know... thank you for reading.

LARRY MADOWE HIGHLIGHTS ON AFRICAN LEADERSHIP.

ITS TIME TO READ LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT AFRICAN LEADERSHIP.
If African presidents are not keen this time round, Larry Madowo might indirectly push them into uncomfortable global scrutiny, the kind that lands leaders answering tough questions before institutions like the ICC.

The way he exposes loopholes, highlights government excesses, and shines a spotlight on hidden political games is something many leaders underestimate. Larry is not just a journalist—he’s a global voice with a massive platform, a man who can turn a local scandal into an international headline within minutes.

African presidents must understand that this era of digital journalism is unforgiving. One investigative story, one viral documentary, or one explosive interview can change the narrative of an entire administration. And once the world begins to pay attention, international bodies follow closely.

So if leaders continue ignoring accountability, transparency, and the rule of law, they shouldn’t be surprised when Larry’s storytelling becomes the spark that attracts global investigators, human-rights monitors, and international observers who dig deeper than anyone expected.

In short, if they’re not careful, Larry Madowo won’t take them to the ICC—but their own actions might, and his reporting will simply light the path for the world to see what their perception is. 

LETS STOP BEING STRANGER TO SUFFERINGS:

I am no stranger to pain. 

When I was younger I was bullied (amongst many other issues) Severely bullied to the point where I spiraled into a deep depression. I ended up on multiple medications and my young body couldn't process all the different drugs and for lack of a better word - I snapped. 

I tried to take my own life many times. I was hospitalized & knew pain deeper than any young girl should. 

I know what it feels like to cut my flesh in hopes that the pain would bring me comfort.

I know what its like to have tubs ran down your throat as your handcuffed to the bed so you dont rip them out.

Because of all the prescription medications, I started to lose touch with myself. I was on 5 prescription drugs at one time and sometimes would fall asleep eating. 

Instead of going to high school I went to treatment centers...any semblance of normalcy was stripped from me. 

You see when I look back on my life & my childhood, there are so many ways the enemy tried to take me out. 

I look back at all the times He attempted to kill steal and destroy me before I had a chance to get to the Lord. 

I believe deep in my bones He knew that I had a purpose, and this pressing and testing the Lord knew He could use for His glory. What the enemy meant for evil - He turned it for good.

One day I'll get deep into my story. It's painful but in every single dark alley of it shines the Fathers love and saving grace towards me. 

He never let me stay down for long. He continued to propel me forward even when I didn't even know it was Him. 

Looking back I can see His wings protecting me and His hand of favor on me. He was always guiding me to Himself

To be honest I shouldn't be alive right now ... but God😭

I say all this to say that no matter how dark it feels, no matter what you're going through He has got you! If you've constantly struggled to fit in or had it really hard just remember that the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy. 

All of hell knows what you carry & what the Lord can do with your laid down life. 

Satans job is to try to stop you from realizing this before it's too late. 

Because when you lock eyes with the King, & know you have a Kingdom purpose it's too late for him. He wants to try to take you out before YOU know. 

But YOU are a warrior. 

Your pain wasn't in vain. He can use it to help others. 

You have something that the Father put inside of you that can't be stolen or killed or destroyed. 

You have a purpose. Don't let any devil in hell lie to you and tell you otherwise. 

There is a trail that needs to be forged that only you alongside the Lord can  trailblaze. 

A short cut out of the fire that took you way too long to escape to share with others.

Lean into the Lord, fall to His feet. Allow Him to train your hands for battle & anoint your head with His oil. 

The world needs you to heal because the world needs His light. 

HOW MANY KNOW THIS KIND OF DISEASE?

LIFELINE OPINION MAGAZINE featuring,

 Mishel Chepchumba, a 34-year old lady from Kakamega county. She’s suffering from a swollen leg. The problem started 15 years ago when the leg became itchy and she complained of having leg pains. After some time, the leg started to swell. It became worse to the extent that she couldn’t walk well. Sometimes the leg discharges pus and it becomes smelly. She gets sleepless nights because of the pain in her leg. Her parents tried to look for her treatment, but to no avail, due to a lack of funds.

Mishel got married, and they were blessed with two kids. Unfortunately, the husband died due to a road accident last year in 2024, leaving her with two kids, aged 7 and 1 year old. The husband was the breadwinner for this family. He did everything and provided for the family. Because of this leg, she is unable to work.

Mishel goes through a lot in her life. She faces rejection from people, and this leads her to isolate herself from people to avoid getting in contact with them. She and the kids often go to bed hungry due to a lack of food. She gives them plain water sometimes when she has no food to give them.

It’s such a challenge for Mishel to provide for the kids’ basic needs. She even lacks a small amount of money to pay her son’s school fees, and the only option left is to stay with the kid at home. She loses hope and sometimes wishes to die. She has tried to take some suicidal medicines three times due to stress.

Buying painkillers for herself has become a problem. She sold her household items to cater to her kids and at least get something to buy medicine. Mishel feels like a lesser woman, seeing that she’s unable to provide for her children.

Let’s help Mishel get her treatment;

 Mpesa Number: 0702099825 - Mishel Chepchumba 

Thanks and be blessed. 

THE SAYINGS OF THE WISE.

 

Proverbs From Different Countries:

1. "He who shakes his neighbor's house will have his own house shaken." (Swiss Proverb)

2. "If a person eats his fill, he cannot taste the bread." (Scottish Proverb)

3. "If you don't know how to smile, don't open a shop." (Chinese Proverb)

4. "Good looks are the strongest recommendation." (English Proverb)

5. "Doing good deeds without expectation of reward is like pouring perfume into the sea." (Polish Proverb)

6. "To know the progress of a nation, look at its women." (French Proverb)

7. "We often see things differently because we only read the title." (American Proverb)

8. "Other people's mistakes are always clearer than our own." (Russian Proverb)

9. "Contentment is half of happiness." (Italian Proverb)

10. "Every man creates his own destiny." (English Proverb)

11. "Adorn your mind with knowledge, not your body with jewels." (Chinese Proverb)

12. "Self-love is the child of ignorance." (Spanish Proverb)

13. "Love that depends on gifts is always hungry." (English Proverb)

14. "Beware of the woman who talks about her virtues and the man who talks about his honesty." (French Proverb)

15. "Love your wife and confide in your mother." (Irish Proverb)

16. "Make your child a prince for five years, a slave for ten years, and a friend thereafter." (Hindi Proverb)

17. "Being human is easy; being a man is difficult." (Russian Proverb)

18. "My family taught me to speak, and people taught me to be silent." (Czechoslovak Proverb)

19. "He who looks at people with knowledge hates them; he who looks at them with reality forgives them." (Italian Proverb)

20. "Anger is a strong wind that blows out the lamp of reason." (American Proverb)

21. "Those who give should not speak of their giving; those who receive should." (Portuguese Proverb)

22. "A large tree gives more shade but fewer fruits." (Italian Proverb)

23. "Put your worries in a torn pocket." (Chinese Proverb)

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PUT ON THE FULL AMOUR OF GOD.

Pull Down Strongholds

I woke up and heard this from the Holy Spirit: "For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds." 

2 Corinthians 10:4-5 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds; Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.

Every stronghold and weapon formed against us, we pull down and loose from our body, soul, spirit, foundations, life, and blood line through the mighty weapons of our God, in Yeshua, Jesus' name. 

We put on the full armor of God,

Wherefore taking unto ourselves the whole armour of God, that we may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. We stand therefore, having our loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; And our feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace; Above all, we our taking the shield of faith, wherewith we shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God: 

Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints. 

Speak in tongues because the HolySpirit will intercede for us. 

And, we cast down every imagination, every lie, and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, in Yeshua, Jesus' name. 

We bring them into captivity, every thought to the obedience of Christ, in Yeshua, Jesus name.

We decree Isaiah 53:5: "But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed." 

We bring every thought to the obedience of Christ, in Yeshua, Jesus' name. 

We decree 1 Peter 2:24: "Who his own self bore our sins in his own body on the tree, that we, being dead to sins, should live unto righteousness: by whose stripes ye were healed." 

I decree that no weapons, strongholds, imaginations, and high things formed against us shall prosper, and every tongue that has risen against us in judgment, I decree is condemned, in Yeshua, Jesus' name.

Amen

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES FOR SUCCESS.

 

     INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES:

1. "Hard work and determination can turn dreams into reality.

2. "Success requires effort and perseverance, even for the most talented individuals.

3. "Take action and start working towards your goals.

4. "Growth and development require effort and activity, both physically and intellectually.

5. "There are no shortcuts to success - it takes hard work and dedication.

6. "Success comes after hard work, not before.

7. "Excellence is a habit, not a one-time achievemen.

8. "Teamwork is essential for success - we must work together.

9. "Keep moving forward, no matter what obstacles you face.

10. "Success comes from hard work and determination, not excuses.

11. "Don't give up, even in the face of defeat - keep pushing forward.

12. "When you love what you do, you'll be motivated to work hard and achieve greatness.

13. "Hard work is necessary to achieve big dreams and success.

14. "Imagination and creativity can help you achieve greatness.

15. "Strive for excellence, even if perfection is unattainable.

16. "Go the extra mile to achieve extraordinary results.

17. "Do what you love, and you'll be successful.

18. "Make a positive impact, not just a living.

19. "Believe in yourself and your abilities, and you'll achieve greatness.

20. "Start small and work your way up to achieve expertise and success.

21. "Leaders inspire and motivate others to achieve greatness.

22. "Teamwork and collaboration lead to success.

23. "Believe in your abilities and achieve greatness.

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Our God is always faithful and never fails. Is always ready to meet and fulfill our needs. At the point of our giving up, that's HIS beginning point. Let's be wise.

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THIS IS FOR YOUNG MEN ASPIRING TO MARRY.

Dear young Men

Never date a woman you cannot correct. If each time you try to correct her and she act so stubborn and always wanting to over power you, dump her she will destroy you and distract you from your purpose and vision.

Never date a woman who’s not submissive to your vision. The job of every woman in a man’s life is to submit to his vision and if the lady you are with does not push your vision or support it, she’s not fit for you.

Never date a woman who TALKS back, signs of toxicity right there brother, you’re a man and a lot of things are talking to you in your head and you don’t need another thing to be barking in your head instead of being your peace and calm you down. A woman who talks back is a disrespectful woman and if given a chance to further a relationship with her she will destroy you.

Never date a woman who moves from bar to clubs, to tarvens and back to bar drinking and drinking, regardless of her personality there’s nothing good there, you need a trophy not a grooviest. It’s better for a man to at least drink not a woman🤣

Never date a woman who’s still in touch with her exes and defending them for whatever reasons! Ex is an Ex regardless of what it is, if your lady is still in touch with her exes and sometimes defend them in front of you as her man!! Dump that thing!!

Never date a woman who is surrounded by people your spirit does not resonate with, if your spirit is telling you that these friends your woman has are not good for her or maybe your spirit man is telling you that maybe they are sellers🤣and if she doesn’t want to let go of them, let her go with them. The quality of a woman is known by the kind of friends she surround herself with.

Women have destroyed kings!!

Today’s generation of women is chaos and you have to be extra careful brother before giving your heart anyhow, you’re a man don’t love hard!! You must love your purpose and vision more than a woman!!

Don’t be a weak man who abandon his purpose and vision and give everything to a woman, don’t give up your dream for a woman, love her but not to the extent of abandoning your purpose and vision.

Many young men are giving up their dreams to sustain women who end up hurting them and cheating on them with old men or men doing better than them, when dealing with a woman have one thing in your mind “ It’s just my time, any time she can leave and give time to another man enjoy your time while she last 

Dear brothers, your purpose and vision is more important than a woman in your life especially if you are still a young man trying to figure out life. Don’t waste your time and resources solving women’s problems.

LADIES ENJOYING GOOD MOMENTS TOGETHER.

 

Types of wives we have in our societies and their characteristics.

      When it's time for marriage both men and women know who to marry simply because they have been dating someone for quite sometime. During courtships, we may learn some characters of our partners. At this stage it's difficult to know every character of your partner. There are characteristics that only start showing up in someone after marriage. This is why you may discover that after marriage some relationships start to experience conflicts and disagreements. 

        For women they end up differing with other family members especially mother inlaw and sisters to the husband.

1. BOXING WIVES : 

    These are the type of wives that fight with their husbands deliberately just to provoke him to anger. These kind of women are ready to fight with the husband mostly in the public area to create a scene...

2. HEADMASTER WIVES : 

    These are the wives that are well paid in either their career or business but they disrespect and put their husband down because they have the financial edge over their husbands...She boasts alot and may not be willing to help the people from husbands family. When she walks around she want to show people how much she is worthy.

3. POLICE WIFE :

    This type is very common. These are the wives that inspect or police their husbands every where they go. When the husband goes to the bathroom they pick up his phone to quickly check his messages...

If the husband makes a call they hide behind the door to listen to every conversation...If the husband goes out they make sure he is followed and has friends that keep an extra eye on the husband activities. She always want to here all the conversations the husband make with the family members. 

4. DICTIONARY WIFE : 

    These are the wives that don't listen to the advise of their husband but rather they prefer to listen to their mother or sister or friend.

Whenever their husband says something, they quickly go to verify from either the mother, sister, friend e.t.c like a dictionary to know if she should go ahead with what their husband instructed or not...This is the point where their relationship starts to fail because the people she is inguiring for about what she was instructed to do may tell her not to do a factor which will even annoy her husband.

5. PARTY WIVES : 

    They prefer to buy every available handbag and shoe to attend any available party even though her family does not have the financial muscle to entertain such expenses...They are readily available at every party and drinkathon thereby neglecting their children, husband and home.

6. PAMPERED WIVES : 

    These are also known as daddy's little girl...They call and report their husband to their father at any slight argument or conversation. She always reports even slite mistakes of the husband to her family members and relatives. The rich ones are highly dangerous especially when the husband is working directly for the father or her family member.

7. LOW PROFILE WIVES ;

   The name might sound harsh but they exist...

They don't value themselves high. They take themselves simple and just how they are. They don't have to argue anything. Their husbands take some of their duties just to avoid shame and embarrassment. Because of this problem, their character may tend to make life boring but their husbands must step in quickly to take up some responsibilities meant for them. 

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THIS HAPPENS TO SOME GIRLS DURING MARRIAGE STAGE.

Now days life has changed from what it used to be in early 18th and 19th centuries. Now days you will hear girls talk about  these things openly. A case study carried out recently shows that girls face a great challenge when it comes to deciding if to get married or not 

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that.

2. Who cares about marriage.

3. I'm focused on my books.

4. I want to gather some money first.

5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.

No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?

2. Don't you have any one yet ?

3. Are you not planning to get married ?

4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?

5. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?

2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?

3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.

4. They are not even ready to marry yet.

5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.

See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.

At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.

They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.

My sister, it matters a lot.

Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?

That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:

1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?

2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...

1. Are you God?

2. Or do you want to marry me?

3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?

4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?

5. God knows the best for everyone please.

At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:

1. My brother, I'm not like them.

2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.

3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.

4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.

You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.

Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

Everything in life has its own season and time.

There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

Think about this when you have time.

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