THIS HAPPENS TO SOME GIRLS DURING MARRIAGE STAGE.

Now days life has changed from what it used to be in early 18th and 19th centuries. Now days you will hear girls talk about  these things openly. A case study carried out recently shows that girls face a great challenge when it comes to deciding if to get married or not 

Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.

1. I'm too young for that.

2. Who cares about marriage.

3. I'm focused on my books.

4. I want to gather some money first.

5. Marriage is full of problems.

These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.

But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.

No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;

1. How far?

2. Don't you have any one yet ?

3. Are you not planning to get married ?

4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?

5. Don't you know you are getting old?

But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.

With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,

1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?

2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?

3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.

4. They are not even ready to marry yet.

5. Well, God knows the best. I believe in God.

See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "God's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.

At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.

They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.

No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.

My sister, it matters a lot.

Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.

Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?

That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.

At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:

1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?

2. Is it not getting too late for you ?

You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...

1. Are you God?

2. Or do you want to marry me?

3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?

4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?

5. God knows the best for everyone please.

At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.

If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:

1. My brother, I'm not like them.

2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.

3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.

4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.

You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.

Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.

Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.

Everything in life has its own season and time.

There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.

Not everything is about prayer. God who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of God. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.

Think about this when you have time.

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A FREE ADVICE TO ALL WOMEN DURING THEIR MONTHLY PERIODS.

MY ADVISE FOR WØMEN DURING THEIR PERI0D ….

As a wøman seeing her period.. please do not do the following things..

1: Do not drink cold water. Ice or coconut water during your period to avoid blood clotting..

2: Do not have segz during your period because your V is very soft during your period and can easily be infected with bacteria.. virus and the rest.. and not just that .. it’s not healthy and adviceable to have segz during one’s period.

3: Do not eat cucumbers during your period because saps in the cucumber might block the menstrual free flow in the uterine walls and this may cause or lead to infertility.

4: During your period.. wash the V with hot water.. not very hot.. it helps in bringing out clots of blood if there’s..

5: Do not hit your body or abdomen against any hard surface because it might lead to excess bleeding or even painful cramps..

6: Avoid taking too much sugar few days before your period or during the first 2 days of your period because this might cause heavy flow or painful cramps too.

7: Do not wear pads for long hours to avoid bumps and rashes..

8: Bath at least twice or thrice a day ..

9: Do not wash the V with soap.. rinse with clean water .. if at all you need to wash with soap.. let it be mild soap and not scented.. 

10: Avoid pads that gives you discomfort 

11: Check the expiry date of pad before wearing.

12: Have your panties for period.. and keep them aside.

13: Don’t park your panties to wash later after period.. wash immediately you removed them to avoid Infections.

14: Dispose your sanitary pads safely.. don’t dump them on the road.. don’t litter them in your house.

15: Take hot tea during your period or even hot water.. it will help the flow to run well and normal and also in bringing out blood clots..

16: After your period.. sit on a hot bucket of water with scent leaves and salt added inside.. don’t allow your body to touch the water please.

17: Wear good and sanitary pants during period to avoid pads shifting and staining your clothes .. 

18: Put extra pads in your bag while going out to a place you might take hrs..

19: Change pads often depending on how your flow is.. either heavy or light.

20: Practice good hygiene during your period. Keep everything and everywhere neat and clean.

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THE WORD OF GOD SHOULD BE A SYMBOL AND ROLE MODEL FOR OUR LIVES.

Psalm 47:1 says, “Clap your hands, all peoples! Shout to God with loud songs of joy.” Psalm 134:2 says, “Lift up your hands to the holy place and bless the Lord!” Psalm 61:1,8 says, “Hear my cry O God, listen to my prayer… so I will ever sing praises to your name…” Psalm 100:1 says, “Shout with a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth”. 

Good morning my precious family, friends and siblings in Christ. Is your church more conservative or actively jumping and shouting a ‘joyful noise’? I’ve been raised in many different denominations. Most were quiet, reserved, and private. People didn’t shout and praise the Lord. They bowed their heads and prayed silently, and many never raised their hands to the heavens to worship. 

When I was nine years of ages I remember hearing that God created Adam and Eve from Adam’s rib, but before Eve, He created the first woman and her name was Jezebel. I asked my mom what was wrong with Jezebel, did God just forget to add Adam’s rib? So my mom called the pastor and asked him to explain this to me. He couldn’t. He told me that he was sorry, but he didn’t have the answer. As I became older and going to church with mom, every time she went, I began to learn more about how to get my answers—study scripture. I found that God only created one Eve, and Jezebel was the Phoenician wife of King Ahab of Israel, bringing her worship to the god of Baal to Israel. Her story was in books of 1 Kings and 2 Kings. 

I began searching for church denominations that worshipped with ‘all their hearts, minds, and souls’, found in the Great Commandment in Matthew 22:37, Mark 12:30, and Deuteronomy 6:5, where Jesus and Moses instructed people to love the Lord God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind’. The verses often also include ‘and with all your strength’. 

I’ve been in plenty of quiet reserved churches, and found that I ‘needed’ a rambunctious church family. Don’t get me wrong, I’m more quiet and reserved than I want to be. I’m learning that when my spirit wants to scream and shout, He’s urging me to jump up and do just that, but I’m not quite there yet, for I too still hold back. But, I have come a long way in my worshipping since I’ve been to the King’s Corner Assembly of God Church. I have never met a church family so loving, and so caring for others. When I first walked in, I knew that I was home! Everyone should be able to find a congregation like that, never judging, never sitting and staring you down as if something was wrong with your clothes or something else. These people love like Jesus first loved us.

Are you afraid to raise your hands to the holy places? Are you afraid to clap your hands and shout to your Father God with loud songs of joy and praise? Are you afraid to cry out to God to hear your prayer? Are you afraid someone is going to think you’re crazy? Then close your eyes so no one can see you! Close your ears so no one can hear your joyful noises! Open your heart, mind, and soul, and with all your strength, concentrate strictly on praising you loving almighty Lord! If you do this no one will see or hear anything. It’s alright.  I’m still doing these things myself. I’ve never been one to get in front of the class to read a report, it’s called, ‘Stage Fright’, and I’m an old woman, still fighting the devil against this age-old ‘disease’. 

Do you remember the movie: Prancer? The little girl in that movie was in the Christmas choir and was going to be in the school Christmas play. The music teacher kept telling her to sing softer, but she never would. In church, her voice was louder than all the congregation’s, and everyone turned to look at her, but she didn’t care. She loved to sing, and continued to sing loudly.

When you have a church family that is loving and appreciative, and a music director and pastor who can inspire the Holy Spirit within you, you will never be ready for the end of service. Time will become irrelevant, and clocks and watches will lose all significance. In fact, you will become so engrossed that you will forget they are even present. If your pastor goes overtime, and the sermon has been great since the first word, then you’re going to feel a range of emotions and internal reactions, such as a sense of God’s presence, or peace, a sense of conviction or inspiration. It can feel as though it’s personally directed at you, which connects God’s word to your daily life, which leads to feelings of gratitude, reflection, and a desire for action or change! 

In fact, you will become so thoroughly immersed that you will lose sight of their presence. If your pastor exceeds the allotted time and the sermon has been exceptional from the outset, you will experience a range of emotions and internal responses, such as a profound sense of God's presence, peace, conviction, or inspiration. It may feel as though the message is personally addressed to you, thereby connecting God's word to your daily life, which, in turn, fosters feelings of gratitude, introspection, and a desire for action or transformation. 

With this exceptional sermon, you will not be ready for closing just yet. The Spirit has a way of imparting profound joy and peace, rendering us oblivious to the time. In our church, we have a significant number of elderly members, but we are endeavoring to attract more young families with small children. This may be candid, but as one of the elderly members myself, along with my sister, I firmly believe that longer services are preferable. It takes longer for elderly individuals to rise and commence exiting the premises. Notably, we refrain from checking our watches, especially during the winter months.

Our church is a Spirit filled church and is one that emphasizes on prayer, the Word of God, and the active guidance of the Holy Spirit. If you are not interested in ours, then remember that when looking for one, consider churches that are characterized by passionate worship, fervent prayer, passionate preaching, genuine community, and a deep commitment to the next generation. They are also often involved in generous service and witnessing to the community!

Our Father and our God, we praise You for the power of Your Word. Indeed, a joyful expression of praise or triumphant shouting can facilitate the miracle we all deeply desire; please grant us the awareness to offer a jubilant shout of celebration, honoring You for the miracles You are about to bring our way in Jesus' name. Amen!

BEHAVE THE WAY YOU DO KNOWING ONE DAY YOU WILL DIE AND GO FOREVER.

WISDOM TIPS FOR ALL OF US.

1.  Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime.

2.  A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.

3.  Silence can never be misquoted.

4.  If you want what no one ever had, you must do what no one ever did.

5.  When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy someone, he puts a person in his life. 

6. It's better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person. 

7. Avoid a contentious woman. 

8. Three kinds of  men to avoid:

              a. A  Hot tempered man.

              b. A Womanizer.

              c. A  Drunkard.

9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.

10. Marry someone of similar religious beliefs.

11. Three words that echo peace in a marriage:

            a.  I love you .

            b.  I am sorry.

            c.  Thank you.

12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness. It won't last forever. Be happy and get busy with your life. 

13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure.

14. Masturbation is can affect your marriage negatively. 

15. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.

16. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.

17. Why you marry is as important as who you marry. 

18. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice. 

19. A man and women need wisdom in choosing who to marry. 

20. Do not place your priority on good looks; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.

May you not fail in your Marriage.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL

EVERY WOMAN LOVES TO HEAR THIS SECRETS.

20 SECRETS LADIES ADMIRE:

1. Call her like twice daily

2. Don't wait until she ask you for money, give out freely

3. Don't tell her she's boring

4. Kiss her on her four head

5. Whenever she tell you she's missing you, and you are not around, try your best to see her that day

6. Play with her like your sister

7. Whenever she tell u, Baby am sorry, try and forgive/ forget

8. Have special time with her and tell her how beautiful she is

9. Don't make her cry

10. If she cry, kiss her tears and tell her she's beautiful

11. Introduce her to your friends

12. Don't promise her heaven and earth when you don't have it

13. Hold her on her waist while walking together to make her feel protected

14. Tell her how special she is .

15. Don't engage her with a ring 💍 if you're not sure to marry her, cos woman do normally get hurt.. And they can cry nonsense

16. She's your Baby, handle her with care,

17. Text her in the morning and tell her you miss her ,

18. Don't lay your hand's on her,

19. Correct her privately when she's wrong in the public,

20. Don't buy her world with everything, but buy her attention. Come back and thank me LATER,

Ladies am I communicating.